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If I was wrong I'll go apologize.

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DH left the light on on the stairs.

I turned it off.

He said "leave it on, it's dark without it."

I said "youngest kid is 8, and perfectly capable of finding a light switch. The light will shine in our room and I know this is silly but it's really bright and bothers me. Can we please leave it off?

DH said "I said leave it on."

I said "that's why I have a nite light plugged in on the stairs, so there is some light but not enough to keep me up. its such a small thing but us important to me."

DH said "the bulb is burned out."

So, I replaced the bulb.

DH got mad and said "you just HAVE to make me wrong, I'm sleeping on the couch!"

I said "no, I wasn't trying to do that at all. I'm just trying to find a good solution for both of us. it's called compromise. I give a little. You give a little."

He was like "no it's just all about you! You you you!"

I said, " If I had my way there would be no light. You want a light, so I did the smaller bulb in the night light. If you want, we can just sleep with our door closed and put the big light on."

He said "I'm not sleeping with you, all you care about is yourself."

So I got mad and told him not to bother coming to bed at all, if he wants to punish me for trying to compromise, well he can just stay out there until he remembers I'm not one of the children, and he can't punish me like I am.

If you think I'm wrong, tell me and I'll apologize.
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Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 24, 2013 at 10:43 PM
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bi-polarmommy
by Gold Member on Jan. 24, 2013 at 10:52 PM

 you're in the right and he is being a dick right now

CorisMom
by Silver Member on Jan. 24, 2013 at 10:52 PM
Right on!


Quoting Anonymous:

You're right. Enjoy the bed to yourself tonight:)

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wrensong
by Pagan Mother on Jan. 24, 2013 at 10:53 PM

I think he was being an ass.

Tal0n
by Platinum Member on Jan. 24, 2013 at 10:53 PM
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Make sure you tuck him in with a bottle and give him his Bear.  Otherwise he won't sleep at all and will be grumpy all day tomorrow.

TexanMomOf6
by Gold Member on Jan. 24, 2013 at 10:53 PM

Their mommas TRY for 18 years to raise them. Then "we" continue to try to civilize them . It rarely works.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 24, 2013 at 10:54 PM
He gets really pissy over the smallest things.


Quoting Bells2000:

i dont think your wrong, but im betting hes upset about something else.



id still stretch out and enjoy the bed! lol

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 24, 2013 at 10:54 PM

How often do you guys have this argument?

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 24, 2013 at 10:54 PM
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from what I've seen, most of the time guys go on about all you care about it yourself, what they really mean is:

  • you don't give me enough blow jobs, or if you do, you don't let me cum in your mouth 
  • I don't get enough sex or the kind that I really want
  • I'm having a affair, she has made me think that she puts me first vs you and I'm trying to make you feel bad for not being what I want.
TrouserMouse
by Emerald Member on Jan. 24, 2013 at 10:55 PM
He's just moody. Everyone gets irritable sometimes. Just say that you didn't mean to upset him and let it go.
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mommyg97
by on Jan. 24, 2013 at 10:55 PM
My thoughts exactly


Quoting skittlefart:

Sounds like someone is on his manperiod...


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