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I know its not rational but... ETA

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Okay, I'll try to keep it short.  Dh works in a resturant.  I found a girls bracelet in his pants pocket.  He's a manager and he says that while at work, she's a cook, and he reminded her no bracelets w. charms - but she had on gloves so she asked him to take it off. he did and put it in his pocket to give it back to her before she left, but he forgot.  I didn't give it back to him.  I was going to take it and pawn it.  I hid it for a while then put it in the change pocket of my wallet so I wouldn't forget next time I was out, but I did.  Then I got a new purse and left my wallet in the old one.  Then I lost the old one.  I knew it was somewhere in the house so I didn't really worry about it.  I just found it tonight and the bracelet is gone.  I'm sure he found it and gave it back to her.  I'm super pissed.  I know I sound stupid, this is just how I feel, I'm just at my wits end.  ugh.


So when dh got home last night we talked about all of this.  He admitted that he had found the bracelet but that he hadn't given it back to her, and he gave it back to me.  Due to some of the ladies advice on here I told him to give it back to her.  I still don't feel good about the whole thing and I love how some of you are coming off (need to post anon more often, get to see new sides to people)  I want to thank the few that were able to keep it kind, and not be ugly/hateful/completely unproductive.  I'm sure the rest of you have never done anything wrong or stupid, never overreacted or acted outta pocket for any reasons.

Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 24, 2013 at 11:39 PM
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KG34
by Silver Member on Jan. 24, 2013 at 11:49 PM

You're pissed that he stopped you from pawning something that didn't belong to you?

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 24, 2013 at 11:51 PM

I'm sorry, I guess I don't quite understand what you're pissed about. That he returned a bracelet that wasn't yours to begin with? I don't think it sounds all that far fetched honestly. I worked in a restaurant while I went to school, and I've seen scenarios like that before. Nothing foul about it, and I think you could be overreacting.

KG34
by Silver Member on Jan. 24, 2013 at 11:51 PM



Quoting Anonymous:


Quoting anotherhalf:

You are pissed because he did the right thing and you couldn't do the wrong thing. Priceless.

I don't think he did the right thing, at all.

How is it wrong for him to return something to its rightful owner?


Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 24, 2013 at 11:51 PM


Quoting Anonymous:

You are a bitch. That would be stealing.

why'd you post anon?  yea, I can be a bitch, but I'm not one in general.  I'm not perfect by far and don't claim to be.  I think they we're messing around and thats how he got her bracelet.  I'm not saying I was right, obviously its not something I feel really good about, but I really don't feel terribly bad either if thats how he got it.

Plus-size-mommy
by Gold Member on Jan. 24, 2013 at 11:51 PM
He is a manager for gosh sakes! Has he given you some reason to doubt his story? It seems like a legit reason to have a bracelet.
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Mrs.Pedro
by Gold Member on Jan. 24, 2013 at 11:52 PM
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Trust issues much? Why would you go pawn it off anyways? Then you end up making your hubby look like a thief rather than him just being a good boss.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 24, 2013 at 11:52 PM


Quoting KG34:



Quoting Anonymous:


Quoting anotherhalf:

You are pissed because he did the right thing and you couldn't do the wrong thing. Priceless.

I don't think he did the right thing, at all.

How is it wrong for him to return something to its rightful owner?


Because in my opinion (however warped it may be) thats putting her feelings before mine.  He knew what I felt about it so he should've just let sleeping dogs lie, so to speak. Its been months.

newmommy7608
by on Jan. 24, 2013 at 11:53 PM

Pass some to me to this should get interesting...btw you kept the bracelet to pawn it?? Really?? That's kinda screwy....no let me rephrase that..it's totally screwy and mean

Quoting Anonymous:

You sound like a real *cough* winner....*cough*

Can someone pass the popcorn please



Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 24, 2013 at 11:53 PM


Quoting Mrs.Pedro:

Trust issues much? Why would you go pawn it off anyways? Then you end up making your hubby look like a thief rather than him just being a good boss.

I abslolutely do have trust issues, with good reason. Honestly I don't care if I made him look bad but I felt like he was lying to me about why he had it.

mcwife86
by on Jan. 24, 2013 at 11:53 PM
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wow dude. you have got to get some better confidence in your marriage and yourself. this has drama fest divorce-ville written all over it as it is.

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