Are you mad at the coach for including your child in the fun with out asking you before inviting them, or your child for throwing a fit instead of understanding sometimes you can't always do everything and maybe they can next time?
Eta: this is not my child my daughters skating coach who happens to also be a close friend sent out an invite really just telling everyone it was family night and that it was $5 to get in and they where going.
She got a text from the parent of the 13 year old that said. "Next time please do not include (-----) in your invitation she doesn't like it when I tell her no and I have to work tomorrow" and now she's being all pissy about the whole thing.
My friend feels like it would be really screwed up to send out the invite and leave the one kid out #1 and #2 the girl really needs to grow up and her mother needs to be a parent! We are all close they have been skating for 6 years and have had sleep overs and even went to nationals with my friends family. So it's not like its her soccer coach for the season.