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dont know what to do

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Im so unhappy. My life is a shell of what it was.

Ive always been a big girl. Ive never let it hold me back from anything. I coached my kids basketball team, walked..rode bikes.. everything anyone else would do. I got sick in 2011. Found out i had a heart defect then injured my back within a two month span. I couldnt walk for a month, and after surgery to fix my heart i developed pneumonia and an arrythmia that left me with little tolerence for activity. Anyway..in 14a months ive gained 85 pounds. Im miserable, no energy, i hurt... i hate myself.

I dont get out much. Dont even go to doctor appts because i dont want to get on scale. My husband is talking to other women...and who can blame him? We want to have a baby..but ill never get pregnant at this weight. My kids miss me..i miss me..

I cant hardly walk.. i have to work and if i walk extra i hurt to bad to work. I want to try atkins..cause counting calories isnt working.. but i just know ill fail.

Im crying so much and so sad.. i dont know where to turn. Feeling pretty hopeless..
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 25, 2013 at 3:02 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jan. 25, 2013 at 3:12 PM
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Just start doing something,  start off small make yourself take a walk around your house once a day,  after a while make it a walk around the block.  Also please start going to your dr appointments again you said you have heart problems and that's nothing to mess with,  your kids need you.  You can do this!  Good Luck!

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 25, 2013 at 3:12 PM
I think its more than slightly ... i hate feeling thus way. I intend to go to my appts, but i cant make myself. I get all anxious and scared ..


Quoting mommyof2andTTC:

Oh hunny! Do NOT feel like that! Your husband is a JACK ASS for speaking to other women rather than helping you... you need to go to doctor appts because what if something goes wrong,, also you need to talk to the doc about the pain when you walk too much and also the weight gain he can give you some healthy ways to lose weight... oh hunny I just wanna wrap you up in a hug and never let go! Maybe you should seek some therapy because you sound slightly depressed... I'm here if you need to talk sweety!



!!!REMEMBER YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL NO MATTER WHAT SIZE!!!

Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Jan. 25, 2013 at 3:13 PM
There is no excuse for your dh to be talking to other women. Hes suppose to be there for you and give support. Try doing things a little bit at a time and keep working at it. Good luck momma and i wish you the best.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jan. 25, 2013 at 3:13 PM

Don't be ashamed,  if it will help you call someone!



Quoting Anonymous:

I prob need therapy ... but im too ashamed to go.. ugh. This isn't me...



supermom.sv
by Bronze Member on Jan. 25, 2013 at 3:14 PM

Hugs. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 25, 2013 at 3:14 PM
I know anon on the internet is crazy... but i havent even said it outloud. So i feel a lil better just getting it out...
Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Jan. 25, 2013 at 3:14 PM
Step 1 is already done. You WANT to change.
Step 2 is to go see a therapist and get a blood panel done. See what the doctor can do to help you. I got prescribed weight loss pills that really helped.
Step 3 is to get to weight watchers. They're amazing, too!
PeaceLoveZ
by Platinum Member on Jan. 25, 2013 at 3:15 PM
Denise Austin.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 25, 2013 at 3:15 PM
Thank you..


Quoting Anonymous:

There is no excuse for your dh to be talking to other women. Hes suppose to be there for you and give support. Try doing things a little bit at a time and keep working at it. Good luck momma and i wish you the best.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 25, 2013 at 3:15 PM
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Quoting PeaceLoveZ:

Denise Austin.

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