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I think this is a double standard

Anonymous
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If a man wants a woman to do something she's really uncomfortable with he's considered a douche but if a woman keeps bugging a man to do something in bed he's uncomfortable with he's considered selfish. To me that's wrong. If you expect him to respect your wishes you should respect his.

He may have genuine reasons for not wanting to do something, maybe he was abused, but frankly even if he jst does not want to that should be good enough. if you expect your partner to do something that makes them really ncomfortable then you are being a self-centered jerk regardless of your gender.

Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 25, 2013 at 4:41 PM
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rosaleeandtwo
by Gold Member on Jan. 25, 2013 at 4:42 PM

I've never encountered that issue.  Sorry.

Iamlegion
by on Jan. 25, 2013 at 4:44 PM
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Makes sense, OP. Never thought about it, but you are right. AGREED.

Sekirei
by LoKitty on Jan. 25, 2013 at 4:45 PM

agreed

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 25, 2013 at 4:45 PM



Quoting rosaleeandtwo:

I've never encountered that issue.  Sorry.


I read a weird post on here today and it bugged me women kept telling her how to make her husband do something he really doesn't like. Not one person said 'hey, if he really doesn't enjoy it then you shouldn't make him'. If a woman had refused the same thing people would have backed her up.

surromama
by Gold Member on Jan. 25, 2013 at 4:45 PM
Me either. My husband will do anything. I've never even heard complaints from men. They pretty much are up for whatever
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 25, 2013 at 4:46 PM

Testify!!

ilana_ny
by Gold Member on Jan. 25, 2013 at 4:47 PM

Never thought about it, but do agree. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 25, 2013 at 4:48 PM



Quoting surromama:

Me either. My husband will do anything. I've never even heard complaints from men. They pretty much are up for whatever


Yeah but if they're not their wife should respect it. 

SpnFulOfSugar
by Emerald Member on Jan. 25, 2013 at 4:48 PM
I'm glad DH is a freak :-)
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mom_dl6
by on Jan. 25, 2013 at 4:48 PM
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Preach it sister !

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