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This is not normal for us...****UPDATE****

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post

Dh and I usually have sex every day to every other day, even when I'm on my period. Tonight will be the 8th day straight that we havent done ANYTHING sexual. He keeps saying it is just cause we are tired. Neither of us are sick and our work schedules and demands are the same as they have been for months. Anyone else go through random spells like this?

****So I sat him down last night and told him how I understand if he is really more tired than usual but that fact that he made no attempt to reassure me about my worries made me worry more. He smiled, said he was sorry and didnt realize and immediately started stripping me down. So I go this clothes off as quickly as he did mine, and we fucked for like 2 hours!!!! Then again for like 10 minutes this morning lol ALL BETTER

Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 25, 2013 at 10:55 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 25, 2013 at 11:08 PM

 

Yep, but he usually just tells me he doesnt have the energy for that (even though I am perfectly capable of getting on top and doing all the work and when I am on top he is done in less than 10 minutes, compared to his usual hour or so). Then some nights, I won't even bother because he wasnt into it the previous night and he will start rubbing me between my legs. So i said "Dont start it if you wont finish it this time" and he stops.

Quoting ecerka:

Have you tried to initiate sex?


 

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 25, 2013 at 11:09 PM

 

I sure hope so! Thanks!

Quoting lauren.m:

Yep its normal im sure your sex life will bounce back soon.


 

shell3m
by Shell on Jan. 25, 2013 at 11:09 PM

mmmmm.  I don't know.....men are very simple in the way that they want sex all the time...meaning that, it just doesn't change for nothing.  Also he doesn't seem to concerned about putting your mind at ease about it all....very strange.  I really don't know what to think about it, hope you get to the bottom of it very soon hun.  ((Hugs))

Quoting Anonymous:

 Thats just it. We share everythign and hardly anything embarrasses either of us, we have been having sex for over ten years and we always change things up. I brought it up to him this morning and I asked if it really was just because we were tired, and he replied with "What else could it be honey?". I said I wasnt sure but it wasnt normal.


Quoting shell3m:

ummm ok.  You need to talk to him about the REAL reason why.  Maybe he's embarrassed about something?  or is embarressed to talk to you about something or maybe he's bored??  I don't know but TALK NOW before anymore time goes by.  Good luck hun.




Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 25, 2013 at 11:09 PM
Why does he say us?
lucsch
by Platinum Member on Jan. 25, 2013 at 11:11 PM
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8 days??? try 10 months the four times I was pregnant (doctor's orders). Once a month is pretty normal, though sometimes it is every other day. I guess that's when we are energetic, since we seem to be the opposite of you. LOL

Hopefully, it IS just being tired.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 25, 2013 at 11:11 PM

 

Thank you :)

Quoting shell3m:

mmmmm.  I don't know.....men are very simple in the way that they want sex all the time...meaning that, it just doesn't change for nothing.  Also he doesn't seem to concerned about putting your mind at ease about it all....very strange.  I really don't know what to think about it, hope you get to the bottom of it very soon hun.  ((Hugs))

Quoting Anonymous:

 Thats just it. We share everythign and hardly anything embarrasses either of us, we have been having sex for over ten years and we always change things up. I brought it up to him this morning and I asked if it really was just because we were tired, and he replied with "What else could it be honey?". I said I wasnt sure but it wasnt normal.

 

Quoting shell3m:

ummm ok.  You need to talk to him about the REAL reason why.  Maybe he's embarrassed about something?  or is embarressed to talk to you about something or maybe he's bored??  I don't know but TALK NOW before anymore time goes by.  Good luck hun.

 

 



 

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 25, 2013 at 11:13 PM

 

Deployment? Im so sorry!

Quoting redneckmama2:

yeah we have gone through spells like that before. Unfortunately we will be going through the longest one soon though its not going to be for a lack of wanting. We will be 1700 miles apart for a year or more :( 


 

shell3m
by Shell on Jan. 25, 2013 at 11:14 PM

You're welcome.  :)

Quoting Anonymous:


Thank you :)



Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 25, 2013 at 11:15 PM

 Because I have been tired lately too. But no more tired than usual. I work 9 hour days 6 days a week, plus with the kids I'm usually exhausted by the days end. But even if I'm nearly asleep I wanna have sex, and will use my last bit of energy to do it.


Quoting Anonymous:

Why does he say us?


 

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 25, 2013 at 11:15 PM
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You've been having sex every night since you were 12? I guess you'd both be tired!


Quoting Anonymous:

 We have only been married 2 years, but we have been together for 10. He's 24, like me. We have consistently made love every night or every other night. So since this is the first time in ten years this has happened, I'm a little baffled. I have talked to him. He says its nothing more than us being tired.




Quoting Anonymous:

How long have you been married? And how old is he?
Just asking, bc most couples start out a lot more vigorous than what ends up the norm.
8 days isn't that long. But talk to Him since you are bothered.



 


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