2 hours later, dd is still scared of him. She says he doesn't look like daddy anymore. I'm a little hurt only because he didn't say anything to me, just did it. I love facial hair and honestly, I am less physically attracted to him now. How would you feel?
Eta--the reason I'm a little upset is because he freaked when I cut my hair. I didn't discuss it with him when I did it three years ago, I got off work, went and donated to Locks of Love. He was upset for a few days and said he loved my long hair. We agreed after that to not make decisions like that without at least informing the other person. This agreement was his idea.
He had a dark, bushy beard and its the only way we have ever known him. Now he looks like his twin brother who is a convicted child molester. Dd knows she isn't allowed around her uncle, and doesn't know him except that he was a teacher and hurt a lot of kids. She knows he is to never be around him and to scream if she sees him. We make it a point to not be around him. I think this is why she's so scared.