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Divorced Moms from former loveless marriages, question

Anonymous
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When did you get to the place where you were serious about Divorce?
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 26, 2013 at 3:28 PM
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mcrowley22
by Bronze Member on Jan. 26, 2013 at 3:30 PM

I reached the point of divorce when he decided that he did not want his son around anymore and that the gambling was more important then diapers. DS was 13 months old. 

IandLoveandYou
by Penny Lane on Jan. 26, 2013 at 3:32 PM

I'm not sure.. I tried to leave him two times before the last time.


3rd times a charm, I guess :).

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jan. 26, 2013 at 3:32 PM

I haven't made it there yet.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jan. 26, 2013 at 3:33 PM

after being regected so much, i didnt care anymore. i turned not attracted to him anymore . it hurt. but i have healed.

First_One_8_18
by Gold Member on Jan. 26, 2013 at 3:34 PM
When i realized he was a lowlife who was never going to be a man and well to help support his family. Not only wad he leaching off of me, he was being extremely emotionally and verbally abusive at thesane time.
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km1970
by Platinum Member on Jan. 26, 2013 at 3:35 PM

I remember sitting looking out the window after he left(again). I caught a glimpse of myself and I looked old and worn out. I didn't even recognize the reflection. Then I thought I am more lonely now married to someone who doesn't even care about our marriage, than I could ever be alone and single. I knew then I was done. 

randi1978
by Murdoc's Mistress on Jan. 26, 2013 at 3:36 PM

When I realized I wanted him dead.  He was an utter tool to us.

mantyangel
by Platinum Member on Jan. 26, 2013 at 3:36 PM
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It took me awhile...but I finally realized that being alone was lesser of the two evils and gave me the possibility of future happiness.
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XJetX
by on Jan. 26, 2013 at 3:37 PM
When he up and walked out on us. I was so thankful that day.
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anity
by Member on Jan. 26, 2013 at 3:53 PM

i tried leaving many times, but this last time, something just hit me that i need to get out and stay out for the sake of my kids, he was very abusive emotionally. and somewhat physically..

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