I reached the point of divorce when he decided that he did not want his son around anymore and that the gambling was more important then diapers. DS was 13 months old.
I'm not sure.. I tried to leave him two times before the last time.
3rd times a charm, I guess :).
I haven't made it there yet.
after being regected so much, i didnt care anymore. i turned not attracted to him anymore . it hurt. but i have healed.
I remember sitting looking out the window after he left(again). I caught a glimpse of myself and I looked old and worn out. I didn't even recognize the reflection. Then I thought I am more lonely now married to someone who doesn't even care about our marriage, than I could ever be alone and single. I knew then I was done.
When I realized I wanted him dead. He was an utter tool to us.
i tried leaving many times, but this last time, something just hit me that i need to get out and stay out for the sake of my kids, he was very abusive emotionally. and somewhat physically..
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