Divorced Moms from former loveless marriages, question

[Anonymous]

When did you get to the place where you were serious about Divorce?

[mcrowley22]

I reached the point of divorce when he decided that he did not want his son around anymore and that the gambling was more important then diapers. DS was 13 months old. 

[IandLoveandYou]

I'm not sure.. I tried to leave him two times before the last time.

3rd times a charm, I guess :).

[Anonymous]

I haven't made it there yet.

[Anonymous]

after being regected so much, i didnt care anymore. i turned not attracted to him anymore . it hurt. but i have healed.

[First_One_8_18]

When i realized he was a lowlife who was never going to be a man and well to help support his family. Not only wad he leaching off of me, he was being extremely emotionally and verbally abusive at thesane time.

[km1970]

I remember sitting looking out the window after he left(again). I caught a glimpse of myself and I looked old and worn out. I didn't even recognize the reflection. Then I thought I am more lonely now married to someone who doesn't even care about our marriage, than I could ever be alone and single. I knew then I was done. 

[randi1978]

When I realized I wanted him dead.  He was an utter tool to us.

[mantyangel]

It took me awhile...but I finally realized that being alone was lesser of the two evils and gave me the possibility of future happiness.

[XJetX]

When he up and walked out on us. I was so thankful that day.

[anity]

i tried leaving many times, but this last time, something just hit me that i need to get out and stay out for the sake of my kids, he was very abusive emotionally. and somewhat physically..