i post this anonymously because shes on here. long story short, my friend is always judging me because i take "breaks" from my son. Yes he drives me crazy and on saturdays i go out with my friend. yes we have a few drinks but i NEVER get drunk! So my friend says im a bad mom because of that, because i dont co sleep, because i put him in a play pin so i can get chores done and not have him in my arms 24/7, and also because im going back to work next week. Shes says its bad parenting that i have a babysitter...i have to work, how is my child going to eat? i simple can not afford to saty home with him. I get that she can because shes on welfair, food stamps, WIC and she can stay home with her kids.if i could i really would, but i cant. and i also dont want to raise my child on welfair! I guess i needed to vent because i get so frustrated with her, because i AM NOT A BAD PARENT!!!!
* Just to let you all know im not a single mother, I live with the father of my child. He goes out friday nights, i go out saturday nights. if do come home drunk we have the other person to look after the baby