Do you think most men cheat?

[Anonymous]

I do feel like I'm a bit jaded. My father cheated, my father-in-law did as well. Most of my friends have been cheated on. I know of Christian men who are involved in the church and who have cheated. Non-Christian men who cheated. Men of all different races. Men with children, without. Married men. Boyfriend-girlfriend relationship. It just seems like so many men do it, it's not just a certain "type".

I've had some health issues recently and my husband and I haven't had sex in about a month. We're young. 20's. Do you think he could have? I mean, I know he has "needs", so why would he be faithful to me when I have been unable to "fulfill" his needs? He works a lot, so it would be easy. It just makes me wonder, I have so many beautiful friends who had sex regularly with their husbands and yet their hubbies cheated.

What do you think; do most men cheat or am I just paranoid because of what I've seen?

[Anonymous]

I don't think all cheat. I'm 99.99% sure my husband isn't the cheating type either.

[bmw29]

I personally think you're paranoid. I don't think most men cheat, in fact it's been my experience that MEN don't cheat. Immature boys cheat and there are some males that never grow up.

[MommyChristina1]

I think most do. But that's no reason to be suspicious of your hubby without cause.

[alexsmomaubrys2]

No. I truly don't. I feel that most women don't talk enough about how great their husbands are but those that are wronged shout it from the roof tops.

[jbirdsladie27]

I don't think so

[Anonymous]

Yes most do, if their wives say they don't they are lying to themselves or don't know it yet.

[Schleetle]

I don't think most people cheat, but some obviously do.

[Tatiana7]

It's hard not to feel jaded. I'd say, stick with the idea that you are in a loving marriage, where your spouse realizes its a medical situation and not lack of desire.

My Husband was in a very serious truck wreck. I didn't stray simply because he was laying in a hospital bed for 5 days. Does that make sense what I'm trying to say? It's not your fault. Men do have needs but fidelity is possible.

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

 

That's an interesting perspective.

Quoting alexsmomaubrys2:

No. I truly don't. I feel that most women don't talk enough about how great their husbands are but those that are wronged shout it from the roof tops.

 

[StrawberryCool]

here's my thing.....

if he isn't getting it from you, he is gonna get it from someone else. 

so i'd start giving it up.