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you dont even want the person who raised you there with you?

Anonymous
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so i raised my niece since she was 8, he mom was(and probably still is) a drug addict. my niece is pergnant and her due date came and went wednesday, so i asked her who she wanted in the room with her other then her husband, she says this "oh just char and liz, and if liz's hubs and her son want to be in there they can be in there" i ask "well what about me or your mom?" she hesitates and says "liz is probably a batter coach then you or my mom" i just hung up...i get she wants who she wants in there but she doesnt even want us in the waiting room.....

1.i dont care about the room, i would have liked to visit say hi and go wait but she doesnt even want people in the waiting room

2.liz is a girl my niece knew for 3 months in high school and randomly invited to her wedding in september

3. yes i hung up, was i supposed to sit on the phone in silence?

Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 26, 2013 at 10:29 PM
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BoxxyBabee
by on Jan. 26, 2013 at 10:30 PM
Boo hoo
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 26, 2013 at 10:32 PM

bump

RMB2011
by Platinum Member on Jan. 26, 2013 at 10:33 PM
And?
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smushy79
by Gold Member on Jan. 26, 2013 at 10:33 PM
Who are Char and Liz?
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RMB2011
by Platinum Member on Jan. 26, 2013 at 10:34 PM
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If you hung up (which was rude) how do you know she doesn't want you in the waiting room?
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 26, 2013 at 10:35 PM


Quoting smushy79:

Who are Char and Liz?

husband and a freiend she only knew for 3 months in high school

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 26, 2013 at 10:35 PM

Sorry, but I was the same way.  I didn't want my mom their because well, my mom is super emotional and has a tendency to center the room on herself.  She always thinks everything will go wrong too, and it does when she is around, but seems to go better when she isn't.  Love her to death and have her around often but it is stressful for me.  I don't call her until after kids are born because of it.  Don't want the drama.

smushy79
by Gold Member on Jan. 26, 2013 at 10:36 PM
Seems odd....
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mlg1989
by ZombieMegg on Jan. 26, 2013 at 10:36 PM
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Uh....sorry? But its ultimately HER decision and wishes. You need to respect them and stop being so selfish and childish over it. I understand you're hurt but hanging up and bitching will NOT help anything. Just be supportive either way and see the baby after they are born.
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maria1613
by on Jan. 26, 2013 at 10:37 PM
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She can have who she wants in the room with her. Get over it
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