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I found naked pictures in my fiancé's phone, am I wrong?

Anonymous
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He asked me to help him with his phone, I tried but couldn't do it. Then a text msg comes in clearly from a woman so I read it. This same woman has been sending naked pics of herself to my fiancé. of course we got into a big argument. Am I wrong for looking thru his text messages bc he swears I am?
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 26, 2013 at 11:35 PM
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brittanyjenean
by Gold Member on Jan. 26, 2013 at 11:36 PM
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If he had nothing to hide then there isn't a big deal of you going through his phone. Clearly, he is hiding something. Sorry momma.
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glycerinej
by Silver Member on Jan. 26, 2013 at 11:38 PM
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Hell no you aren't in the wrong... ANY time someone gets caught, they like to flip the blame to others.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 26, 2013 at 11:39 PM
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His is trying to deflect the guilt from him to you. It's a common tactic people do when caught cheating.  Ignore what he is saying and get back to the bigger transgression.

banana-bear
by on Jan. 26, 2013 at 11:40 PM
Wtf! No that shit isn't cool!! He's wrong.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 26, 2013 at 11:41 PM
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Good thing you're not married, he's not that into you. Sorry.
sunangel803
by Bronze Member on Jan. 26, 2013 at 11:41 PM
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He asked you to help him with his phone and a text popped up...how would somebody NOT notice something like that?? I don't think you're wrong. What was his explanation?
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by Silver Member on Jan. 26, 2013 at 11:41 PM
NIpone should be sending him nudes. He is the idiot for allowing some woman to think its ok for her to do that. Men are stupid.
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ExquisiteMomof2
by PHOTOGMOM on Jan. 26, 2013 at 11:42 PM
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What is wrong with everyones men lately? Seriously, ya'll making it feel as if my husband is the last standing faithful man.

What's in the water? Remind me to not drink it.
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clearlyme
by Silver Member on Jan. 26, 2013 at 11:48 PM
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He handed you his phone and a text came in, so you checked it. A man that has nothing to hide wouldn't care. Also, as a previous poster said, he is deflecting. He got NAKED PICS FROM ANOTHER WOMAN. face that issue and dump the sorry asshole.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 26, 2013 at 11:54 PM
He didn't have an explanation he just got upset with me for snooping thru his things. Says she's someone who doesn't live in our state..


Quoting sunangel803:

He asked you to help him with his phone and a text popped up...how would somebody NOT notice something like that?? I don't think you're wrong. What was his explanation?

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