my hubby and i have had some issues this past year and we decided he should make the den his new bedroom. it has been about 6 months now and I LOVE having my own room/space! I always said that when the first kid is out of the house I'm getting my own room but he didn't like the idea. we are still working on our marriage and we have "visits" when we want to. I know some of you may feel like it's a bad idea but I can't stress enough how this is my saving grace and love having my own space! What do you think for/against seperate bedrooms?