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HELP! Boyfriend Crap!!

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post
So I've been seeing this guy for about 3 yrs. Its not serious. I'd like it to be. I care about him a lot!!! He, on the other hand, never shares his feelings. Neither have I!!! He has no idea, I LOVE HIM! We have had sex once. I've given him countless bjs!!! I recently moved 30 miles away. I thought it would end the "relationship". It didn't!!!! He comes to see me about 3 times a month. No sex happened. But we just meet somewhere. I enjoy my time with him. Wtf am I supposed to think!?? Is he into me or not??? HELP!!!!!!! What am I supposed to feel????
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 27, 2013 at 3:48 AM
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TTC2Long
by Silver Member on Jan. 27, 2013 at 4:19 AM
Oooo-k. *backing slowly out of post*

Quoting Anonymous:

I didn't mention; I am married ladies! But my marriage sucks.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 27, 2013 at 4:19 AM
I live in So Cali. 30 mins with traffic means about 2 hrs. I can't stop anything with him. I feel like a teen!! I'll take him anyway I can!!! I know I'm dumb!


Quoting kiralyn:

2 hours to drive 30 miles??



Or did you mean to say you moved 30 minutes away in the op?



Either way, I still think you either need to talk to him or stop being sexual with him. It's obviously making you feel like you're going crazy over him. That's not good for you.




Quoting Anonymous:

30 mins; no traffic. If he gets traffic, takes him about 2 hrs. Not that it makes me feel special. Honestly, I do feel used. But than I think, "he can get this shit at home from someone else!" Easy!






Quoting kiralyn:

30 miles isn't that far. It kinda sounds like he's using you :-/







I think you should tell him how you feel, or at least quit giving him blow jobs/ doing anything sexual and just try to accept that you are only friends.


britishmummy
by on Jan. 27, 2013 at 4:19 AM

So you are cheating on your husband with a man who wont have sex with you?

Quoting Anonymous:

I didn't mention; I am married ladies! But my marriage sucks.


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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 27, 2013 at 4:21 AM
Our 1st kiss was last year. He always said he didn't kiss. Unless it was a girlfriend or wife.


Quoting TTC2Long:

When you do get time together, does he act like a boyfriend? Do you hold hands? Kiss?

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 27, 2013 at 4:22 AM
I know! Sorry I didn't mention it earlier.


Quoting TTC2Long:

Oooo-k. *backing slowly out of post*



Quoting Anonymous:

I didn't mention; I am married ladies! But my marriage sucks.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 27, 2013 at 4:23 AM
Yes! & I feel so stupid!


Quoting britishmummy:

So you are cheating on your husband with a man who wont have sex with you?

Quoting Anonymous:

I didn't mention; I am married ladies! But my marriage sucks.



britishmummy
by on Jan. 27, 2013 at 4:31 AM

I first read this with sympathy, but you bought it on yourself. You are MARRIED. Why even have another man on the side? Have you ever thought he doesn't want to sleep with you due to being married? You need to leave one man... I would leave your husband, if you loved him, you wouldn't have gone with another man for THREE years

Quoting Anonymous:

Yes! & I feel so stupid!


Quoting britishmummy:

So you are cheating on your husband with a man who wont have sex with you?

Quoting Anonymous:

I didn't mention; I am married ladies! But my marriage sucks.




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