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have you've ever had an abortion while married?

Meaning the baby is by your Husband of course
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by on Jan. 27, 2013 at 5:44 AM
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mommamaggi
by on Jan. 27, 2013 at 11:54 AM

I had one, but don't know if it was my husband's or not... we were trying to get pregnant when I was raped so... yeah. We did end up getting pregnant a few months later though :) Twins! 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 8 on Jan. 27, 2013 at 11:55 AM

We pondered it after we had a scare, i dont think i could have justified it if i had to make the choice though, we already have 2 kids but still i couldnt choose. dh was 100% involved in the decision.

Hayleysmom88
by on Jan. 27, 2013 at 11:55 AM
No. I could never. Unless it was ectopic or a molar pregnancy or something
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Hayleysmom88
by on Jan. 27, 2013 at 11:55 AM
No. I could never. Unless it was ectopic or a molar pregnancy or something
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Mistweave
by on Jan. 27, 2013 at 11:55 AM

I can understand if the two people agree but me myself? I couldn't. I lost one baby and since I'm RH negative they said the easiest thing to do would be a d&c which is how they do them anyway most times and I could never go through that again.  Even though I knew my baby was already gone I was still a wreck until I got pregnant again and it still bothers me but I'm not quite as apt to want to toss myself off a bridge.

curlycupcake
by on Jan. 27, 2013 at 11:55 AM
Yup. Dh & I married young. We got pregnant on our honeymoon. We chose to abort. It was the right thing for us, we were too young & too poor for bringing another life into the world. I don't know how we got pg- I must have messed up my pill. I'm super fertile, so if I didn't take it at the same time everyday... I guess that's all it took.
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proudmommy690
by Ruby Member on Jan. 27, 2013 at 11:55 AM
I've never had an abortion.
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1wildchild
by Bronze Member on Jan. 27, 2013 at 11:56 AM
I've never had an abortion period.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Jan. 27, 2013 at 11:56 AM
He was all for it. I was hesitant and felt horrible; cried just about the entire time while sitting in the waiting room by myself, but did it anyway. She should do what her heart and head tells her, not the other way around.

Quoting BUFFIE.the.BODY:

Did you and your DH agree? I'm trying to help a friend out & I'm no help



Quoting Anonymous:

yes I have. Two, in fact.
KairisMama
by Emerald Member on Jan. 27, 2013 at 11:56 AM

 My mom did the first year her and my dad were married.

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