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Wives, that didn't live with their Spouses before marriage..

Anonymous
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if you had lived with him before, do you think you would've married him still? I know for sure I wouldn't have.
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 27, 2013 at 11:55 AM
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KeimUNCmomof3
by Gold Member on Jan. 27, 2013 at 11:57 AM

how long were you together before you got married?  ha ha i couldn't wait to move in with him, so after 2 years of dating, i slowly moved myself in, lol.... so glad we are married. he makes me happy!!!  he helps with cooking and cleaning, so it's all good.

quickbooksworm
by Ruby Member on Jan. 27, 2013 at 11:58 AM
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I absolutely wouldn't have married him. Probably why we are divorced lol.
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alexsmomaubrys2
by Ruby Member on Jan. 27, 2013 at 11:59 AM

My husband and I are very happy. I can't really say if we had lived together first if we would have gotten married. Neither of us had cohabitate with a boyfriend/girlfriend before. It was new to us but we were determined to make it work and after 10 years I can't imagine living with anyone else.

Trolllala12
by Member on Jan. 27, 2013 at 12:00 PM
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Well that was a mistake lol. That's the whole point of not wandering into a marriage. Two years of dating doesn't tell you shit about a person, how they will be to live with. They can keep their "dating face" on when you are around and go back home, watch porn, pick their nose and get drunk without your say so. Shoulda thought about the simple stuff before you swore an oath to love and live with them forever
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VannaMae307
by on Jan. 27, 2013 at 12:01 PM

We lived together only 5 months before getting married and he was gone for the majority of that for training. I pretty much knew what I was getting myself into. As he gets older and grows up more he is much more helpful and not so "king of the castle" delusional as he once was.

LaLa_Ivory
by on Jan. 27, 2013 at 12:02 PM
he moved himself in before we started officially dating. lol.
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usmcwifey11
by Platinum Member on Jan. 27, 2013 at 12:04 PM
I still would've married him. He's the cleanest man I've met. Lol. He doesn't have any odd habits.
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Lyssa0587
by Gold Member on Jan. 27, 2013 at 12:06 PM
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You must, and I repeat, you must test drive the car before buying it!!!!!!! LOLOLOL

the4mutts
by Bronze Member on Jan. 27, 2013 at 12:06 PM
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Ive co-habitated with several men. 6 to be exact. Theres a reason none of those relationships lasted more than a couple years, and this one is going on 5yrs. Because once i lived with them, i couldnt stand them. I only lived with 1 for 2 months before i dumped him.
Living together is a must in my book. Everyones different, not saying anyone that doesnt live together first is wrong, but i would never marry someone i hadnt lived with.
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SpiritedWitch
by Froggie on Jan. 27, 2013 at 12:07 PM

Couldn't have lived with him prior b/c I was 15 when we got married but yes, I would have. 

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