Another post made me think of this. This is still something that kinda bothers me. I got married April 2012 and of course wanted my best friend to be my maid of honor, she was excited and all for it. I live in Alabama (moved here a few years back from Kansas) she still lives in Kansas. My girls all had 6 months to get their dresses and I had told them if they needed help I would totally pay (most generally the wedding party pays for their stuff but I was willing to help). My best friend told me she wouldn't have a problem but as time passed she kept putting off getting her dress and giving me excuses. I not once got mad at her though, I just kept reminding her I'd help. I was even going to pay her way down here so she wouldn't have had to pay anything. (We were best friends for 13 years by the way). she stopped replying to my messages and out of the blue she said she couldn't afford the dress, it was too late to order it otherwise I would've. Still I wasn't mean or or got mad at her. Of course I was a little upset and I told her that then that was the last I heard from her. She deleted me off Facebook, never returned texts or calls. She's never tried to contact me again... I've asked other people she knows about her but nobody knows much. I miss my best friend but I honestly don't know if she wants anything to do with anybody. It's been a year now and I've been thinking of trying to find her online. What would you guys do? Ever lost contact with somebody? I don't know if the wedding did it or maybe she had her own battle going on she didn't want to tell me about.