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If you can't afford diapers, you can't afford a baby.

Anonymous
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I just read this online and thought this would be an interesting topic for discussion. 

What do you think?

Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 27, 2013 at 11:36 PM
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by Anonymous on Jan. 27, 2013 at 11:36 PM
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Makes sense......if you cannot afford at least the basic needs for a baby then you probably have no business making one.
Not_A_Native
by Platinum Member on Jan. 27, 2013 at 11:37 PM
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True.  And also, if you can't afford food, you can't afford a baby.  And just in case someone was clueless - older kids cost more than babies.

ElitestJen
by Ruby Member on Jan. 27, 2013 at 11:38 PM
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Most people can afford just diapers.  However, if you can't afford formula, health insurance, clothes, diapers, etc. all at the same time - then you can't afford a baby.

.Funfetti.
by Bronze Member on Jan. 27, 2013 at 11:38 PM

Yeah. 

But then you are going to have the people who say use the re-washable ones and blah, blah, blah. 

bustybee
by Buzz Lightyear on Jan. 27, 2013 at 11:38 PM
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has merit, but are there exceptions to the rule? like allergies or cost increases caused by location?

horseap
by Gold Member on Jan. 27, 2013 at 11:38 PM
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 REALLY, NO SHIT?!  What are you going to do wrap it in old news papers?

brittanyjenean
by Gold Member on Jan. 27, 2013 at 11:39 PM
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There are two sides of this coin.....if you can't afford diapers, you can always go old fashioned with cloth.  If you refuse to use cloth and can't afford diapers, then nope, you shouldn't have a kid.

TattoodMommy19
by Platinum Member on Jan. 27, 2013 at 11:39 PM
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Generally true.

But shit happens. Maybe they could afford diapers and a baby lol but then someone got laid off or whatever and now they are struggling.

I try not to make huge blanketed judgements
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tennisgal
by Gold Member on Jan. 27, 2013 at 11:39 PM
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well that certainly doesn't run parallel to all the moms on here who say, "they're young. they can't help it"

eye rolling

Unoriginal.
by on Jan. 27, 2013 at 11:39 PM
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Ya still got start up costs lol

Quoting .Funfetti.:

Yeah. 

But then you are going to have the people who say use the re-washable ones and blah, blah, blah. 


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