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Confession. I HATE my body.

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I feel less of a woman with no breast. I hate being carded everywhere I go. People look at me as my husbands daughter. I feel 25 but can't get other people to see me as even 18 :( I am 4"11 80lbs Measurments = 28 , 25 , 34


by on Jan. 28, 2013 at 3:04 AM
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prinzesa_edith
by Bronze Member on Jan. 28, 2013 at 3:31 AM

you actually remind me of me. lol, only the fact that i now have 3 girls and i have not dropped all the weight. but if i was thinner id look even more yoiunger. im 25 also.

Quoting MPH_2010:

TY and ah tummies .. I had a C-section and have that impossible pudge that will not go away. THANK GOD for Zumba lol

Quoting prinzesa_edith:

your soo cute! great body, be glad girl. aftaer my girls i havent lost my tummy apron, and thats not sexy

Quoting MPH_2010:

TY this is me..My profile pic was when I was bigger from being pregnant!

Quoting Anonymous:

If that's you in your picture...You look every bit of a woman and mom. You do not look like a child at all.





MPH_2010
by on Jan. 28, 2013 at 3:35 AM

Awesome Don't tell me youd from Alabama too :P ha. Have you tried zumba? It's wonderful lol. There are many diff. styles you can do it at home or in a class and it's a lot of fun plus exercise. PERFECT COMBO haha!

Quoting prinzesa_edith:

you actually remind me of me. lol, only the fact that i now have 3 girls and i have not dropped all the weight. but if i was thinner id look even more yoiunger. im 25 also.

Quoting MPH_2010:

TY and ah tummies .. I had a C-section and have that impossible pudge that will not go away. THANK GOD for Zumba lol

Quoting prinzesa_edith:

your soo cute! great body, be glad girl. aftaer my girls i havent lost my tummy apron, and thats not sexy

Quoting MPH_2010:

TY this is me..My profile pic was when I was bigger from being pregnant!

Quoting Anonymous:

If that's you in your picture...You look every bit of a woman and mom. You do not look like a child at all.






lapcounter
by Queen Mom on Jan. 28, 2013 at 3:37 AM
Well look are how you're dressed, that might be your first issue.

Quoting MPH_2010:

TY this is me..My profile pic was when I was bigger from being pregnant!

Quoting Anonymous:

If that's you in your picture...You look every bit of a woman and mom. You do not look like a child at all.


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prinzesa_edith
by Bronze Member on Jan. 28, 2013 at 3:38 AM

i tried it but im not coordinated enough. lol im from san diego. just moved out here.

Quoting MPH_2010:

Awesome Don't tell me youd from Alabama too :P ha. Have you tried zumba? It's wonderful lol. There are many diff. styles you can do it at home or in a class and it's a lot of fun plus exercise. PERFECT COMBO haha!

Quoting prinzesa_edith:

you actually remind me of me. lol, only the fact that i now have 3 girls and i have not dropped all the weight. but if i was thinner id look even more yoiunger. im 25 also.

Quoting MPH_2010:

TY and ah tummies .. I had a C-section and have that impossible pudge that will not go away. THANK GOD for Zumba lol

Quoting prinzesa_edith:

your soo cute! great body, be glad girl. aftaer my girls i havent lost my tummy apron, and thats not sexy

Quoting MPH_2010:

TY this is me..My profile pic was when I was bigger from being pregnant!

Quoting Anonymous:

If that's you in your picture...You look every bit of a woman and mom. You do not look like a child at all.







MPH_2010
by on Jan. 28, 2013 at 3:39 AM

Well it's not like I wear this outfit everywhere I go lol

Quoting lapcounter:

Well look are how you're dressed, that might be your first issue.

Quoting MPH_2010:

TY this is me..My profile pic was when I was bigger from being pregnant!

Quoting Anonymous:

If that's you in your picture...You look every bit of a woman and mom. You do not look like a child at all.



MPH_2010
by on Jan. 28, 2013 at 3:41 AM

LOL.. Hey I'm gonna send you a FR. I'm going to bed but you seem really cool and I like cool people :P

Quoting prinzesa_edith:

i tried it but im not coordinated enough. lol im from san diego. just moved out here.

Quoting MPH_2010:

Awesome Don't tell me youd from Alabama too :P ha. Have you tried zumba? It's wonderful lol. There are many diff. styles you can do it at home or in a class and it's a lot of fun plus exercise. PERFECT COMBO haha!

Quoting prinzesa_edith:

you actually remind me of me. lol, only the fact that i now have 3 girls and i have not dropped all the weight. but if i was thinner id look even more yoiunger. im 25 also.

Quoting MPH_2010:

TY and ah tummies .. I had a C-section and have that impossible pudge that will not go away. THANK GOD for Zumba lol

Quoting prinzesa_edith:

your soo cute! great body, be glad girl. aftaer my girls i havent lost my tummy apron, and thats not sexy

Quoting MPH_2010:

TY this is me..My profile pic was when I was bigger from being pregnant!

Quoting Anonymous:

If that's you in your picture...You look every bit of a woman and mom. You do not look like a child at all.








coronado25
by on Jan. 28, 2013 at 3:44 AM

My sis  and I felt that way. She is also 4 11, super petite, very pretty childlike face. I am 5 foot, not as pretty, and about ten pounds heavier. We are two years apart and have 3 other sisters who are  younger and all over 5ft 5. Our taller sisters did not experience, but did witness that well beyond teenage hood, assumed to be a child ren everywhere we went.  We'd go out with our husbands and children and be given child menus. We could not even buy a box of matches at a convenience store without ID because in Florida you must be 18, even though we don't smoke and only need them for birthday candles or camping.  We would get pulled over by police thinking we were too young to drive. We have both had people on different occasions assume our husbands are either our fathers (even though they are only a few years older than we are)  or worse,   child molesters. We have been stopped in a mall at the ages of 26 and 28 by truant officers, held and harrassed, since our purses were in the strollers being pushed elsewhere by our mom and her friend at that moment. It has been suggested to our younger taller sisters, on other occasions, that they must sit at a table and not at the bar with us, because no one under 21 can sit at the bar. Our taller, younger sisters were 21 22 and 24 at the time and she and I were 28 and 30.

At a certain age, this becomes humiliating. Both my sister and I had breast augmentations after weaning our children.  If we could've added heighth, we would have forgone the breast augmentation and become taller. But that is not an option.  Since our breast augmentations, these incidents have decreased 1000 fold.  And yes we are both SUPER HAPPY about that.

Do whatever you like, because it is your life, and you only live once, make it a happy one, especially if what will make it happy poses no harm to anyone else.

These incidents decreased a hundredfold since our boob jobs. We could both care less about the bra size.

coronado25
by on Jan. 28, 2013 at 3:49 AM

I want to add that my sister and I were often TREATED like children by doctors, bosses, coworkers, store clerks, our children's teachers, librarians, professors, etc. prior to our breast augmentations, which, like I said, we would've traded for a height adjustment were such a thing possible. 

Lalalie
by Gold Member on Jan. 28, 2013 at 3:52 AM
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You're adorable, and I don't mean that in a rude way at all!

But you look like a mother, not a child. Since you are smaller I guess I can see how some people could think you are younger, but I'd still say early twenties at the youngest.

Quoting MPH_2010:

TY this is me..My profile pic was when I was bigger from being pregnant!

Quoting Anonymous:

If that's you in your picture...You look every bit of a woman and mom. You do not look like a child at all.



white_wolf454
by Platinum Member on Jan. 28, 2013 at 3:55 AM
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your pretty mama and maybe with a clothing update it might help 

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