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S/O: Can you Ever Know for Sure Spouse Won't Cheat?

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Is it possible to know for sure your spouse won't cheat?  I'm talking literally know s/he won't, not faith/trust that s/he won't.

I won't give my opinion, as I don't want to sway the results.

Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 28, 2013 at 9:40 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 28, 2013 at 9:45 AM

I was sure mine never would. And then he did. 

TairyHesticle
by on Jan. 28, 2013 at 9:45 AM
:( that is awful...im so sorry.

Quoting teeliner:

Nope....Who would have thought after 23 years & all we "survived" that he would cheat & leave us. He traded us in for a younger version. 

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m0m23b0ys458
by Bronze Member on Jan. 28, 2013 at 9:47 AM
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Of course not.But I can be 100% sure I'd boot his ass if he did.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 28, 2013 at 9:50 AM

ETA: I dated me spouse a long time before we got married. We had conversations about how disgusting cheating is. He was never good at keeping secrets. I was sure he wasn't the type. I was like many of these women who are 100% sure. The people who know both of us were shocked by his infidelity. It can happen. 

Quoting Anonymous:

I was sure mine never would. And then he did. 


teeliner
by on Jan. 28, 2013 at 9:50 AM

Thank you. xx

Quoting TairyHesticle:

:( that is awful...im so sorry.

Quoting teeliner:

Nope....Who would have thought after 23 years & all we "survived" that he would cheat & leave us. He traded us in for a younger version. 


xboybrksgrlx
by on Jan. 28, 2013 at 9:50 AM
I have known my husband for 13 years. So half my life. He is faithful and safe. He would do nothing like that to destroy our family. He treasures us too much.
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AleaKat
by on Jan. 28, 2013 at 9:52 AM
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No you never 100% know for a fact!

My husband is honest and loyal to the bitter end but ill never be naive enough to say he could never/ would never cheat .
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MichelleSw
by CoolStory on Jan. 28, 2013 at 9:54 AM
I don't think you can say100% on that. You can not control other people. With that said, my SO is so great; I highly doubt he would cheat. He is better than me. I think out of us two; it would be more likely for me to do it but I wouldn't put of morale.
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wissotamum
by Silver Member on Jan. 28, 2013 at 9:54 AM

No.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 28, 2013 at 9:54 AM

No one can know anything 100%. But I do know in my heart he would leave me before sleeping with someone else , that's just the way he is . Cheating is pure immaturity IMO 

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