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S/O: Can you Ever Know for Sure Spouse Won't Cheat?

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Is it possible to know for sure your spouse won't cheat?  I'm talking literally know s/he won't, not faith/trust that s/he won't.

I won't give my opinion, as I don't want to sway the results.

Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 28, 2013 at 9:40 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jan. 28, 2013 at 9:57 AM

No you can't. 


lincolnlady
by Gold Member on Jan. 28, 2013 at 9:59 AM
Unless your watching him twenty four seven, then no you can never know for sure, without trust and faith, of course. That is why trust is so important in marriage. I believe in the trust in my marriage. I also feel like we are so open with each other that if it got to the point where one of us was that unhappy with each other we would know, talk and try to work it out before cheating.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Jan. 28, 2013 at 10:00 AM
No you will never know. People change over the years.
Oostera
by on Jan. 28, 2013 at 10:16 AM

Not 100%, I can't be there every minute of every day, it is impossible to know for SURE. I would be very surprised, though!


Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Jan. 28, 2013 at 10:18 AM
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I KNOW he won't cheat.  Because we have an agreement, if either one of us wants to go outside the relationship, we TELL the other person straight up.

meka26
by Gold Member on Jan. 28, 2013 at 10:18 AM

You can never be too sure about anyone.

Miller0305
by Platinum Member on Jan. 28, 2013 at 10:19 AM

Mine won't.  He's not that kind of person.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 7 on Jan. 28, 2013 at 10:19 AM
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Mine is physically and mentally disabled due to Iraq. He is not capable of intercourse, romance or complex conversations.

I know for a damn fact he won't cheat.
Tooth_Inspector
by Platinum Member on Jan. 28, 2013 at 10:20 AM
No I don't think there's a way to be 100% sure but I have faith and trust and I'll enjoy that until something happens.
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3xangel
by *Angelicious* on Jan. 28, 2013 at 10:20 AM
This, especially when people do things they never thought they would do.

Quoting meka26:

You can never be too sure about anyone.

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