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S/O: Can you Ever Know for Sure Spouse Won't Cheat?

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post

Is it possible to know for sure your spouse won't cheat?  I'm talking literally know s/he won't, not faith/trust that s/he won't.

I won't give my opinion, as I don't want to sway the results.

Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 28, 2013 at 9:40 AM
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auntietotty
by Ruby Member on Jan. 28, 2013 at 10:20 AM

Ive been with mine for 30 yrs and he never has. I've never even suspected, had an inkling, or anything else.  He's a very trustworthy man. 

He told me once...if nothing else, he needs to know I can depend on him and trust him. And he has proven that.

CorpCityGrl
by Platinum Member on Jan. 28, 2013 at 10:20 AM

I would love to say yes, but the reality is "no."  Nothing in life is certain and circumstances and people change.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 28, 2013 at 10:21 AM
Quoting Anonymous:

Mine is physically and mentally disabled due to Iraq. He is not capable of intercourse, romance or complex conversations.

I know for a damn fact he won't cheat.



This may be one scenario where I agree you can know for sure.
audreesmama
by on Jan. 28, 2013 at 10:21 AM
I don't think it's possible to know for sure. I highly doubt it. I would bet they he wouldn't, but anything is possible I guess.

I know for a fact I would not cheat, no matter the circumstances.
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MamaRae85
by *you're on Jan. 28, 2013 at 10:22 AM

I don't think you can know for sure, like with proof, but I think you can "know". lol

I'm not sure if anyone will get that, but that's how I think of it.


The_Doodle
by Platinum Member on Jan. 28, 2013 at 10:23 AM

I think many people will say they know for sure. I know I used to say it...that is, until it happened to me. We worked through it and came out with a stronger marriage than before, but I learned the hard way to never say never.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 28, 2013 at 10:23 AM
Unless it's not physically or mentally possible, I think anyone has the potential to cheat. My husband won't.

People say, "you will get sick of it and cheat," and that's not true. That's a total bitch move. I love him and he is still the same man.


Quoting Anonymous:

Quoting Anonymous:

Mine is physically and mentally disabled due to Iraq. He is not capable of intercourse, romance or complex conversations.



I know for a damn fact he won't cheat.





This may be one scenario where I agree you can know for sure.

myloves.050709
by on Jan. 28, 2013 at 10:24 AM

I can say that I know 100% that my dh won't cheat.

Just because of the person he is.  I trust him completely. 

My-mono-twins
by on Jan. 28, 2013 at 10:24 AM

 No

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 28, 2013 at 10:26 AM
I know for sure my husband would not cheat.
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