My last relationship was anything but healthy. In a matter of 14 months I was dumped 6 times. The 7th and last time,I decieded enough was enough and didn' go back like I usually would. While we were together he would go to his ex's house to see his son. Yes that is all fine and dandy but come 10 or 11 o'clock at night the kid should be in bed. Well he was. My ex was just there to hang out with his ex-wife, till sometimes 2 in the morning. Ignoring my calls, texts, all of it. And these are just a few examples of the crap I put up with for WAY to long. NOW, I'm away from him...moved on. Got a good job, a place, Working on gettin all my traffic tickets taken care of. AND I've moved to a better relationship. ALthough it doesn't take alot to be better, this one is amazing. He bends over backwards for me, and he's so old fashion. Holding doors, doing the heavy work, and for the last week he's been even more amazing cause we learned I'm pregnant! But the anxiety is still there, If I can't get ahold of him, or if I feel he's being distant, I worry he's going to leave. And its completely ridiculous, cause I know he's happy with me. Its just from crap with my ex, I just want it all to stop.