Would you have a problem with it , or would you go with the flow and enjoy yourself ?
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My SO loves to wake me up for sex in the middle of the night, which is never a problem for me.
But tonight was a bit different , i didn't wake up until he was already in...i of course had no problems with it and enjoyed myself.
Now i am wondering how many mom's would have a problem with their SO/DH/DF doing that?
Would you rather he wake you fully up , or just not try it at all ?
Quoting Anonymous:
I'd like it but my dh sees it as wrong and will do other things til I am awake. I'd go with it if he did though.
My SO usually does do other things until he knows i am awake , this was a first time thing lol.
I just happened to be laying in a position that he couldn't resist lol. I am positive that if i hadn't woken up when i did , he would have said my name to wake me up.
That great that works for you in your marriage but it dosen't in mine. Just because we're married doesn't mean I have to just give him sex whenever he wants it because I still have a choice in the matter.
Quoting Anonymous:That's kind of silly to me. You married him, you consented. I will have sex with my husband anytime and almost anywhere that he wants. And he will do the same for me. Isn't that the perk of being married, you don't have to go without. If I had an early morning (and was working outside of the house) or I was sick then that's the only time I might be upset, well or if I had a tampon in but he would have know that in advance and not done anything. I trust him and I would have gone with it.
Quoting Anonymous:My dh wouldn't do something like that but I would have a huge problem with it because he didn't have my consent first.
Quoting Anonymous:
Quoting Anonymous:
I'd like it but my dh sees it as wrong and will do other things til I am awake. I'd go with it if he did though.My SO usually does do other things until he knows i am awake , this was a first time thing lol.
I just happened to be laying in a position that he couldn't resist lol. I am positive that if i hadn't woken up when i did , he would have said my name to wake me up.
I wasn't saying I don't have a choice in the matter. We've had periods of time were we don't have sex that often and we get into fights with each other and life sucks. If I'm not in the mood why should I make him suffer? I do my best to get into the mood and have fun. And he does the same for me. I find that we fight less often the more we have sex. I know that some times women are raped by their husband but I don't think that's the norm and it's silly to say that he can't have sex with you unless you're sober, awake, and fully consent. So you have a glass of wine with dinner and he can't ask you for sex because you might not be aware of what's going on?
Quoting Anonymous:That great that works for you in your marriage but it dosen't in mine. Just because we're married doesn't mean I have to just give him sex whenever he wants it because I still have a choice in the matter.
Quoting Anonymous:That's kind of silly to me. You married him, you consented. I will have sex with my husband anytime and almost anywhere that he wants. And he will do the same for me. Isn't that the perk of being married, you don't have to go without. If I had an early morning (and was working outside of the house) or I was sick then that's the only time I might be upset, well or if I had a tampon in but he would have know that in advance and not done anything. I trust him and I would have gone with it.
Quoting Anonymous:My dh wouldn't do something like that but I would have a huge problem with it because he didn't have my consent first.
That's the ugliest name everrrr!!!