Seriously, she's staying - is she stupid?

[Anonymous]

 A friend of the family - just found out that her husband of almost 7 years has been cheating on for almost 4 years. Not only is he cheating but the girl he is sleeping with is 20 years younger than he is
(shes approx 27 years old, and hes almost 47) His wife has known for 3 1/2 years that he is doing it. Yet she continues to stay.

Im sorry but if I found out my husband (or boyfriend) was cheating on me, I'd leave. No if's and's or but's. Especially after almost 4 years....same girl, still cheating? Seriously? I can totally understand if you want to work it out the frist time, maybe even after the second, but going on 4 years - DONE. Divorce, Get the fuck out.

 

[Roxygurl]

You can't live her life, that apparently is something that she can deal with so just allow her to live the way she wants.

[luvmymonkeys27]

It's her choice to make. I don't think it makes her stupid. It's certainly not something I would do, but it's her life. 

[frzmamaof4]

You took the words right outta my mouth! If your dumb enough to stay after all of that, you deserve to get cheated on!!

[mom2the.rescue]

Wow.  That poor woman must have no self worth.  I would not only leave, but I'd spend at least a small amount of time & money ruining their lives.  I think it would make me feel better ;)  But, I've heard stories where the woman was happy he was cheating b/c then she didn't have to F7ck him.

[layawatling]

Bitches be cray

[Litlmama87]

That's her business, I guess since you're gossiping about her on CM, you really don't know much about the situation...

[CrystalPystol]

It's her choice. Maybe she truly doesn't believe in divorce even though she has reason for one. She may take her vows that seriously. More power to her.

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

 The girl he is cheating on his wife - happens to be a friend, not really even a friend, just an acquantice I know. I seen them out one night - and I pulled her to the side and was like "dude he is married" and she just really didnt give a shit.

So I was talking to the girl and she said the wife was sending her messages.

I just think its stupid. Your husband is cheating on you with a girl who is 20 years younger than him. wtf. lol

Quoting mom2the.rescue:

Wow.  That poor woman must have no self worth.  I would not only leave, but I'd spend at least a small amount of time & money ruining their lives.  I think it would make me feel better ;)  But, I've heard stories where the woman was happy he was cheating b/c then she didn't have to F7ck him.

 

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

 no she does, the wife is a friend of the family - shes been divorced 2 times already.

Quoting CrystalPystol:

It's her choice. Maybe she truly doesn't believe in divorce even though she has reason for one. She may take her vows that seriously. More power to her.

 

[PitbullPrincess]

I couldn't do it, but if it works for her..