He drives me nuts! He expects the house to be perfect at all times, but won't even pick up after himself. He leaves his clothes everywhere, his dishes everywhere, etc. but then if I have a bad day and don't get everything done, he freaks out about the house being a mess. I love him very much, but it drives me nuts when he does this. How do I get him to quit being obsessive over the house? I don't go to his job and nit pick everything he does, so he needs to back off of me. My house is not disgusting by any means, I'm talking about the clothes still being in the dryer the next morning, or a few toys on the living room floor cuz the kids have been playing all day in there, or *gasp* a pillow fell off the bed. grrrr!!! He's stressing me out for no reason. I feel like I can't relax in my own home because I'm always worried about something not being "right"