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Anonymous
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...DH had a vasectomy a year ago. I'm over a week late but didn't think too much of it until I woke up feeling queasy this morning. DH had his 6 month check and was swimmer free. Going to test this evening but has anyone else gotten pregnant after a vasectomy? How did DH/SO react? We've joked about it and he said he'd want a paternity test but I'll be pissed if he really does question my fidelity. I havent been with anyone else but man if I am pregnant it'll be awkward telling friends and family since they know he's snipped.

Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 29, 2013 at 2:10 PM
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AFWifeNMom
by on Jan. 29, 2013 at 2:12 PM
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Could you really blame him for wanting a pat test done??

As far as he knows, he is unable to have kids.

What would be your first thought??
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LovelyMommy24
by on Jan. 29, 2013 at 2:13 PM

From what I've read on here, a lot of people have. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 29, 2013 at 2:13 PM
Good luck!
kitchen.ninja
by on Jan. 29, 2013 at 2:14 PM
My dh had a vasectomy 5 years ago. No pregnancy for us. If I did end up pregnant I would have a paternity test done to ease dh's mind.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 29, 2013 at 2:14 PM

keeping my fingers crossed for you

MrsCountryMama
by Platinum Member on Jan. 29, 2013 at 2:16 PM
Uhhoh
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RockstarsMoM08
by on Jan. 29, 2013 at 2:17 PM
Hugs!!
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 29, 2013 at 2:20 PM
If my DH were snipped & I got pregnant I would let him get a test done, I would be hurt by him asking for one.. But I'd rather calm his fears right away, then for him to believe I had cheated. Good luck to you!
Kaybean
by Ruby Member on Jan. 29, 2013 at 2:24 PM
Why would you be hurt by him questioning your fidelity? If someone gets snipped and is told they're swimmer free, anyone in their right mind would question it. I would say it's unlikely though if he's swimmer free.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 29, 2013 at 2:26 PM

 I guess initially I could understand him being all wtf, but he knows me better than that. Or he should. Plus I stay home with our kids all day. All my college classes are online. When I go out with friends it's always a playdate. It would be hurtful if he didn't trust me.


Quoting AFWifeNMom:

Could you really blame him for wanting a pat test done??

As far as he knows, he is unable to have kids.

What would be your first thought??


 

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