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Mind your OWN DAMN BUSINESS!!!!

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post

I went to the store today to buy bread and meat to feed my family. I have a full time job and DH is desperately searching for one. We get $350 a month in FS. I am responsible with them and ONLY buy meat, cheese, breads, milk and produce.

So today I went to the store. I got some hamburger meat, hamburger buns, milk and a few other items. Tomorrow at my 7 year old DS's school is a class party and he begged me to buy him a treat to bring. Being responsible, I paid for my items with my FS and then separately bought the $3 tray of cookies with cash. The man behind me sighed heavily. I turned and looked at him. He then very rudely and loudly says. "If you have cash why do you bother using FS? People like you are what's wrong with this world." I nicely explained I have a job, but don't quite make enough to support our family and need the FS to feed my kids, however I do not believe in using FS to buy junk food, so I used the last $5 in my pocket. He just rolled his eyes and said I was trashy. I went home in tears. Who the Hell is he to judge me? He doesn't know me or my situation, why couldn't he have just minded his own damn business.

What would you have done? If you were behind me would you have commented?

Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 29, 2013 at 2:41 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 29, 2013 at 3:03 PM
Nor has it happened to anyone else I know IRL.
Can you read or just post & fight for your bs madeup stories?


Quoting Anonymous:

You're dumb. It happened to me today. I had no idea if things didn't happen to you personally then they weren't plausible. Forgive me for not understanding you were the center of the universe, and that if you personally didn't see it couldn't have possibly happened. What a jackass...

Quoting Anonymous:

Troll.

I'm so tired of these bs fs stories!

I've been in them for years never has this happened to me or anyone I know IRL!

Bullshit.



kissesxoxo8882
by Gold Member on Jan. 29, 2013 at 3:05 PM

 I may have commented how you did doing the right thing. Pay no mind to Idiots hun.

kysmama08
by Gold Member on Jan. 29, 2013 at 3:06 PM

Lol well at least you got a laugh and don't feel so bad now :)


Quoting Anonymous:

I busted out laughing when I read "smacked him in the face" with the hamburger! HILARIOUS!

Quoting kysmama08:

I have no problem with people that get help from the system, it's there to help ppl that are actually trying but like you said just can't fully make it right now. As for the little ass hats comment he made I would not have been as nice as you were, I prob would have took the hamburger I was buying and smacked him in the face with it. Fuck him, keep doing what you gotta do girl don;t let assholes judge you and make you feel so shitty, they're just upset with their own miserable existence, more than likely a load their mother should have swallowed.




Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 29, 2013 at 3:06 PM

Whatever. Believe what you want. I couldn't care less.

Quoting Anonymous:

Nor has it happened to anyone else I know IRL.
Can you read or just post & fight for your bs madeup stories?


Quoting Anonymous:

You're dumb. It happened to me today. I had no idea if things didn't happen to you personally then they weren't plausible. Forgive me for not understanding you were the center of the universe, and that if you personally didn't see it couldn't have possibly happened. What a jackass...

Quoting Anonymous:

Troll.

I'm so tired of these bs fs stories!

I've been in them for years never has this happened to me or anyone I know IRL!

Bullshit.




Luna091306
by on Jan. 29, 2013 at 3:06 PM

 No I wouldn't have commented. Had I been behind him, however, he would have gotten an earful.

Sorry op, you're damned if you do, damned if don't. There is no "responsible" way to use foodstamps apparently. (sarcasm)

Litlmama87
by Platinum Member on Jan. 29, 2013 at 3:06 PM
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I would have embarrassed him.

Act starstruck, & tell him while I've seen his work in tranny porn, and am impressed with his acting skills, taking it up the ass by a man in a wig & red lipstick, not everyone can earn their money that way, but I am interested in his new flick coming out, "Bent for the Beast"

Then act like I'm calling someone..." you will NEVER guess who's behind me in line..."
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iheartmiboys
by Silver Member on Jan. 29, 2013 at 3:06 PM
I would've have said back the duck up and mind your mother ducking business. That's how itches get cussed the duck out. Playa lol

In all seriousness. I would have been shocked there are some bold ass people nowadays. He don't know you from Adam. You could shot him. People need to learn how to mind theirs
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nelliesmommy
by NoTtOdaY:) on Jan. 29, 2013 at 3:06 PM

I would have paid with fs and told him to shut the fuck up. You don't have to explain your life to him.

MaileysMommy
by on Jan. 29, 2013 at 3:06 PM

No, if I was behind you I wouldn't have made any snotty comment. If I was behind HIM and heard him talking to someone like that I would have had a snotty comment for him though. Rude. 

mamakin616
by Bronze Member on Jan. 29, 2013 at 3:07 PM

I don't care what the person in front of me is buying or how they are paying for it. I would have said something to that guy though...I can't stand to see a man stand there and  belittle a woman..no matter what the reason.I probably would have said something rude and made him feel like an ass,like.."Do you feel better now..SIR...you have bullied a woman today?? Whats next on your list ..you want to go find a dog to kick around???

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