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if i divorce dh

Anonymous
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Will I have to pay alimony? I make twice as much. He is threatening to get a lawyer and take the house that I pay for, my car that I bought before marriage, our pets, and part of my retirement benefits. He's poor but his grandpa is a lawyer. I don't make much. Only 50k a year
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 29, 2013 at 4:37 PM
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furbabymum
by Platinum Member on Jan. 29, 2013 at 4:39 PM

 Depends on your state my dear.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 29, 2013 at 4:39 PM
Legally the house the car is all half his in most states. Does not matter who paid for it. Good luck
catrig
by Platinum Member on Jan. 29, 2013 at 4:39 PM

Consult a lawyer

Elishas_mommy10
by Silver Member on Jan. 29, 2013 at 4:39 PM
Does he have any work history or an education above High school?
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 29, 2013 at 4:40 PM
Missouri


Quoting furbabymum:

 Depends on your state my dear.


Elishas_mommy10
by Silver Member on Jan. 29, 2013 at 4:40 PM
And he can't take your car its not a marital asset
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 29, 2013 at 4:41 PM

 You need to talk to a lawyer of your own. See what they think.

DH had a friend just go through a divorce. The lawyers negotiated that he would not pay alimony and she would get a part of his retirement instead. If the house is in both of your names, doesn't matter who is paying for it, it's community property. If the car is in your name, that may be the only thing that he can't find a way to mess with.

Good luck.......Sorry you are having to go through this.

pbjtime87
by on Jan. 29, 2013 at 4:41 PM
Did he not work during the marriage?
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 29, 2013 at 4:41 PM
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Just keep fucking him..... Seriously your going to lose everything. He can't live forever
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 29, 2013 at 4:42 PM


LMFAO!!

Quoting Anonymous:

Just keep fucking him..... Seriously your going to lose everything. He can't live forever



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