I don't like sex. It hurts.
It has become a chore. I'm never aroused anymore.
Sex became painful after the birth of my 2nd child. I've seen a Dr. They can't find any reason I should be in so much pain during sex. I also yell and cry during a pelvic exam. Everything in that area just hurts.
I used to love sex. Now my husband is lucky if I can hold back tears long enough to let him cum.
I feel like less of a woman. I've become pretty depressed.
It has become a chore. I'm never aroused anymore.
Sex became painful after the birth of my 2nd child. I've seen a Dr. They can't find any reason I should be in so much pain during sex. I also yell and cry during a pelvic exam. Everything in that area just hurts.
I used to love sex. Now my husband is lucky if I can hold back tears long enough to let him cum.
I feel like less of a woman. I've become pretty depressed.
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 29, 2013 at 5:01 PM
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on Jan. 29, 2013 at 5:02 PM
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Holy shit I was about to make a post almost identical to this.
Wtf is wrong with us
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on Jan. 29, 2013 at 5:04 PM
Find another doctor and a sex therapist. How old is your second child?
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on Jan. 29, 2013 at 5:04 PM
i'm sorry:( maybe you should start doing your own research on why it hurts? or ask your husband to go slowly?
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Bronze Member
on Jan. 29, 2013 at 5:06 PM
It is. It makes having a happy relationship damn near impossible.
Quoting Anonymous:
Idk mama.
I've seen 3 doctors. Its horrible, isn't it?
:(
(((Hugs)))
Quoting AidansMomMom:Holy shit I was about to make a post almost identical to this.
Wtf is wrong with us
by Anonymous - Original Poster
on Jan. 29, 2013 at 5:06 PM
I've tried. All my research just points to "see a Dr" which I've done.
We've tried slow, lots of lube, different positions. It still brings me to tears no matter what.
We've tried slow, lots of lube, different positions. It still brings me to tears no matter what.
Quoting kgcrazy:i'm sorry:( maybe you should start doing your own research on why it hurts? or ask your husband to go slowly?
by Anonymous
on Jan. 29, 2013 at 5:06 PM
after the birth of my daughter sex was painful for about a year. I forgot the term my doctor used for it but it's common in women. Just as suddenly as it came was how it just stopped one day, no special treatment. During the occasion I did have Sex we used the same kind of lub that would normally be used for anal but for my vaginal area. The reason being the lub has a specific ingredient that makes the area a bit numb. I could still enjoy sex just without the pain.
by Anonymous - Original Poster
on Jan. 29, 2013 at 5:07 PM
At this point, I wouldn't really blame him if he cheated on me.
Its not fair to him that I'm defective.
Its not fair to him that I'm defective.
Quoting AidansMomMom:
It is. It makes having a happy relationship damn near impossible.
Quoting Anonymous:
Idk mama.
I've seen 3 doctors. Its horrible, isn't it?
:(
(((Hugs)))
Quoting AidansMomMom:Holy shit I was about to make a post almost identical to this.
Wtf is wrong with us
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I think my husband's a sociopath