The guys in my high school were just awful. They would say the most horrible things about every girl they slept with. Girls had nicknames, 'canyon cunt', 'stinky', 'rottencrotch', "that girl is a horrible fuck", "that girl was a dead lay". It was terrible. I got called "S.P." (stinky pussy) for my entire junior year. Funny how this one guy called me that but no one else ever said I smelled bad. Maybe it had somethin to do with the fact that I started dating his best friend after we broke up. I dunno. The reason I ask is because being called that has affected me for years. I was convinced that I was gross. I thought my vagina was the plague. I mean I would walk down the hall and his friends would yell out "hey SP!!". I guess it would be the equivalent of a guy being called "little dick man" in front of everyone. I've always wondered if all teenage guys are so cruel. I know it shouldn't matter all these years later. But it really affected how I have felt about myself sexually for many years. It really hurt my ability to see myself as a sexual being. For years I saw myself as something disgusting. Sometimes I still do. My dh loves my body (he's kinda obsessed with it!). I have a good man. I'm lucky. Were any of you deeply affected by how you were treated years ago by a man? (or in my case, a teenage boy).
And the most annoying part is that those guys acted like they were some kind of Casanova.....when they could last all of 30 seconds.