I have and will keep working to raise my children without gender lines,meaning girls can take out the trash and boys can play with dolls in my home. I allow the children to express themselves as they choose as long as it is respectful.
J (m) (8) can be feminine (sp) at times ... Not a issue for us at all just the other day we were talking and j was saying something about when he gets married i asked him if he thought he would marry a man or a women and he replied women.
Well the other night the kids were playing "dress up" and the boys dressed like girls and the girls dressed as boys.... No big deal
Today kts cousins gf was over, and jer puts on his sisters dress and heels and was playing w n(f) (4) pretending to be "the mom". My wifes cousins gf starts telling him to get his ass in his room and change telling him thats gross and asked him wtf was wrong with him that only girls w a vagina where dresses. When i stepped in she was just so thrown bk with this type of play and started yelling at me that i was fucking up my kid and i am fucking sick called my son a sick little wanna be fa+t and left my home! Whos right? What would you have done?
Eta: I would just like to explain my son does not always wear a dress,as a matter of fact he has only done it twice. I would also like to say if he did want to wear a dress to school i would have a long talk explaining everything that could happen as a result of his choices and if he still felt the same i would support him and be his voice or support when needed. I would also see if he needed therapy to help cope and deal with others and to also make sure he had support that i may not be able to offer.