I told DF I dont trust him to take our 8 month old DS to the mall playground by himself. He works full time and when he comes home he goes to the gym for 2 hours and does the same thing on his days off. As a result he is unable to soothe our DS when he gets fussy and my DF gets irritated and tends to give up. and the mall isnt just down the road, so if my son were to get really fussy, it wouldn't be a quick trip home. DF lost it and threw the diaper bag, picked it up, and threw it again and punched the couch. That behavior alone tells me I'm justified in not letting him leave, but he claims my comment made him react that way. I say nothing justifies that type of behavior, but was I wrong for telling him I don't trust him to take him? I told him it was b/c he doesn't know how to soothe him, so there isn't any confusion.