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I'm black, my DH is black, and our children are black

Posted by Anonymous

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Yea, it sounds just as pointless and stupid when you mothers of bi-racial/multi-racial children do it.

Why the hell do parents of mixed kids feel the need to constantly display their children as if they are in possession of some rare life form? Who the hell cares that you have mixed kids?! Why must we play "guess which race my kid is" games with you?! Why must the first words that come out your mouth when someone compliments your kid be "thanks, she's mixed with..."

When someone compliments my child, I don't respond with "thanks! She's black! "

We get it, you have mixed children... No one cares.

Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 29, 2013 at 9:54 PM

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BUFFIE.the.BODY

Platinum Member on Jan. 30, 2013 at 5:36 PM

1 mom liked this

Sure do, I see you don't lol

Quoting kamrynlily07:

Aww...do you feel better now? I hope so. Have a great day!

Quoting BUFFIE.the.BODY:

Lol I see you're slower then I though, TEACHER! BLAHHHHHH! Next time I'll make sure I'm not mobile once I'm done turning in my essay KIDDO

LMAOOOOOOO!!!!!!!

Ps. Since you're playing TEACHER today learn how to READ and pay attention since you failed at reading this post!

Quoting kamrynlily07:

At least I don't have a grammar problem.

Quoting BUFFIE.the.BODY:

Exactly, she's the reason this post is up smh some people just don't get it. Her comment made me burst out & tears of laughter LMAO!!!

She has to have a problem bc it really needs to be solve

Quoting Anonymous:

I just read that to my df and he said isn't she doing that right now.

Quoting BUFFIE.the.BODY:

Same thing I just said lol! I guess it went in one ear & out the other with this chick LMAO!!!!!

Quoting Anonymous:

This is what she's talking about. Lol!

Quoting kamrynlily07:

Hmm I have mixed children (white / Hispanic) but I don't make a huge point of it..

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violetlady

Silver Member on Jan. 30, 2013 at 5:36 PM

Lololololololololololo

MOOOOOOMMM

Quoting Anonymous:

You are a spaniel? As in cocker spanial? Or did you mean spaniard?

What was your mom doing with that spaniel?

Quoting violetlady:

Dh and I are a mix of indian , spaniels and me Africans: mix. Mi cats are mixed and my dog looks like a germen sheperd but she is mix too. So we are a buch of mixed people!

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amanda81919

on Jan. 30, 2013 at 5:38 PM

I don't push it. My kids are chicanos. Yes, but I never point it out unless asked.

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by Anonymous on Jan. 30, 2013 at 5:38 PM

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Just wanted you to know that there are those of us in bi-racial marriages with bi-racial kids that DON'T do this.

by Anonymous on Jan. 30, 2013 at 5:39 PM

Whenever people say their kids are "mixed," it makes it sound like they are comparing their kids to mixed dog breed. It's trashy imo.

BUFFIE.the.BODY

Platinum Member on Jan. 30, 2013 at 5:41 PM

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It should have bc I laughed typing it lol you SERIOUSLY need to get your life together.. Poor gal LOL

#SLOW

Quoting kamrynlily07:

Wow...I don't know what to say. This literally made me laugh out loud!

Quoting BUFFIE.the.BODY:

Sureeeeee you were and I'm the Cat in the Hat

You have too many people that quoted what you said laughing at your empty mind it's ridiculous. Get off cm for a day and get yourself together hun.

Quoting kamrynlily07:

I was agreeing with the OP...

Smh lol!

Quoting BUFFIE.the.BODY:

You just did smh lol!

Quoting kamrynlily07:

Hmm I have mixed children (white / Hispanic) but I don't make a huge point of it..

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1stpreggers

Gold Member on Jan. 30, 2013 at 5:45 PM

AGREED!

by Anonymous on Jan. 30, 2013 at 5:48 PM

Bumpy

MammaPaparazza

Gold Member on Jan. 30, 2013 at 5:56 PM

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It's the Italian in me ;)

Quoting FooLynRoo:

It's like you hang out with my old man! lol

Quoting MammaPaparazza:

Italian by injection of spicy Italian sausage lol

Quoting FooLynRoo:

both lol my paternal grandmother was italian, but all other grandparents were pure german. is it paternal or fraternal. dunno dads side.. but im more italian by injection. lol

Quoting MammaPaparazza:

I'm the whitest dago you will find lol I'm practically transparent! My family is from northern Italy near the alps, we are white white lol...

My dh tells me I'm not white either because of being Italian he picks on and so does his family, yet he's 1/4 Italian himself.

So are you a little Italian by blood or by injection?

Quoting FooLynRoo:

no italians are not white..... i tell dh that all the time!!!

lol

im glow in the dark white..i was describing my skin tone not race lol

im mostly german with a bit of italian

Quoting MammaPaparazza:

Foo... I'm Italian and I'm white lmao

So what type of white are you??? Lmao

Quoting FooLynRoo:

im white dh is italian our son is amazing