Ever had one? For how long did it last? Would you do it again or not and why or why not?!
I had a one night stand who keeps texting me, I told dh already about then night and he's willing to move past this but idk what to do w/ the guy texting me......I don't want to tell dh becuase he'll go nuts on this poor guy who is turning out to be really nice but I just dont know =/ I already know I'm awful but now I need advice!
*UPDATE*
I saw the other guy again, we have a lot in common but I have no romantic feelings for him. We could be really good friends but I cant see myself being with him fully. I felt bad going to "see" the other guy then coming home to dh, but I just showered and went to bed. I don't feel guilty at all today I'm sure that's not normal but dh and I are still going to work things out. Idk if I'll see him again but if he asks I'll probably say yes.
I would divorce before I had an affair.
if you dont want to be with your DH, let him go. tell him that you dotn want to be with him anymore and go through with it. once thats done, maybe try to reconnect with the affair guy.
being in a relationship b/c of guilt will cause you resentment and more issues
Yes. When the other man's wife found out she told my DH. He was hurt which was my goal at first, but he couldn't say much considering I never would have contacted OM if he hadn't gotten back in touch with OM's wife.
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Just an emotional affair with the husband of the slut my dh had an affair with. That was a big mess I wish I could erase.
emotional affair as in what?
Lots of texts, phone calls, emails, web chats etc. Lots of talk of leaving our spouses for each other. I know that had we been in the same state at the time it would have gone much further :-(
did your dh ever find out?
It's been a year since then. Dh and I are happy and working hard at our marriage still, but its that determination and commitment that has turned our relationship into something amazing.
You nip it in the bud, tell him to stop texting you, and block his number. He's not THAT nice if he doesn't respect your marriage. If your husband is willing to move past it, you need to move past it too and not have any contact with this person, or else you will probably lose your husband.
I have a guy I have sex with. we don't have a relationship, just sex when we can both get away. No chance in he'll I'd tell my husband. he would flip. and it would destroy him. I love him, I want to live my life with him,, but the sex is stale. I am a better wife when I'm getting some on the side. in other words, my dh can't meet my physical needs so I get it somewhere else.
as far as the one night stand goes you should probably tell him to stop texting you or block his number. of course he's "a nice guy", he wants sex with you. they only turn into jerks when they don't have anything to get from you.
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