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I've done something to offend people in this group. I've tried to be nothing but nice to people. I'm just a generally nice person and it's pretty hard to upset me, but it seems like no matter what I say someone has something rude to say back to me. Seriously, I could say "I have 3 kids" and someone would reply with "you whore!! I bet you're on pa too!!".

Why? If you know who I am and you're one of the ones who are constantly rude to me...what did I do? Please tell me because I'm clueless.
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by on Jan. 30, 2013 at 2:10 AM
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Amybelle
by on Jan. 30, 2013 at 2:19 AM

I'm guessing they post anon................they are completely insignificant and unimportant. Don't worry about them, Ignore them.

Byrd15
by on Jan. 30, 2013 at 2:20 AM
Welcome to the Internet! :)
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Kim042269
by Member on Jan. 30, 2013 at 2:21 AM
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When people are rude to me, it goes into my head as "blahblahblahblah" because I really don't care what other people think. Try it, it's nice!

Nicky2911
by on Jan. 30, 2013 at 2:21 AM


I've just been there sort of... in grade school I had this one girl who seemed to hate my guts and would go out of her way whenever possible to be mean or rude to me. I was a shy, quiet girl who tried to be nice and helpful whenever I could and was completely clueless to why she hated me so much. I don't really care like I did then... now I'm just really curious.... like a puzzle I never finished.

Quoting DevinAnnesmom:

Oh, I know that and I don't give the people here a second thought irl, but it just gets irritating when every post or comment I make I get jumped all over. Obviously I've offended someone and I'd like to know what I said/did so I can apologize.

Quoting Nicky2911:

ummm bump because it sounds like you really need to know?.... sorry it bothers you so much but remember there are people in your life who are much more important than the mean chicks on here....



kaycersmom
by Katie on Jan. 30, 2013 at 2:21 AM
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 3 kids you whore!!

lol jk I wonder if your just a random victim of an anonymous with some issues :/

DevinAnnesmom
by Sarah on Jan. 30, 2013 at 2:22 AM
Yup, they do. I'm starting to wonder if it's always the same person though because of the way they talk kwim?

Quoting Amybelle:

I'm guessing they post anon................they are completely insignificant and unimportant. Don't worry about them, Ignore them.

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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Jan. 30, 2013 at 2:23 AM
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there have even been posts about having multiple kids with the same man and they have gotten the snarky "maybe you should have kept your legs shut"
anytime someone posts about their deadbeat baby daddy, someone always has to say "well maybe you should have gotten to know him before having sex with him" even if you'd known him for years before getting pregnant.
some women on here think they are better than anyone else and LOVE to belittle people because their lives are shitty/their self esteem is in the crapper/they are in an abusive relationship/they're just a freaking bully and it makes them feel better about themselves to make someone else feel shitty about their lives.
christina259
by Bronze Member on Jan. 30, 2013 at 2:24 AM
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 Most of the time on cafemom people are pretty nice but there has been times where people have been rude. It was like they somehow misunderstood what I was trying to say or I just didn't realize how bad it sounded while I was typing it. I also recall replying to a post a while back where everyone was bashing her and I couldn't for the life of me understand why. It made me down right mad because that particular situation seemed like a case of jealousy on the part of the repliers. It was a military wives group and because she mentioned her husbands rank for the purpose of explaining her situation the group took it as she was being cocky about her dh being such high rank. I didn't read it that way at all and let her know I was sorry they were treating her that way. Judging by her response I still don't think she meant it the way they took it. Don't feel bad. (even though when they did it to me I did feel bad. I knew I was being silly to let a group I hardly now bother me but it did, now I just delete the post. Not because I'm afraid of thier comments but because I don't feel I deserve their crap so if its generating bad replies (replies that are just mean rather than an opposing opinion) out it goes. I come on cafemom for support and a break, not to get bashed. I'm sorry your going through this too.

babyboy117
by on Jan. 30, 2013 at 2:24 AM
You think the same person is following your posts and bashing you? I had that happen to me recently. The same person kept coming in my post just ripping me to shreds. I think people come in here with the agenda to bully. Don't sweat it. They are not worth it.

Quoting DevinAnnesmom:

I figure a lot of people don't. That's why it confuses me. I stay pretty quiet, but somebody out there hates me.



Quoting babyboy117:

I have no clue who you are.
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Amybelle
by on Jan. 30, 2013 at 2:25 AM

Most likely, I have a cpl like that, they snark-anon & then anon-agree with their anon-snark......lol

Quoting DevinAnnesmom:

Yup, they do. I'm starting to wonder if it's always the same person though because of the way they talk kwim?

Quoting Amybelle:

I'm guessing they post anon................they are completely insignificant and unimportant. Don't worry about them, Ignore them.


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