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I made a little mistake and now he is not talking to me :( Edit*

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I accidentally paid one to many bills this week and figured out early this morning that unless we deposit $70 into our checking first thing today then we will overdraft and be slapped with a $30 at least fee.  I know it's my fault and I feel awful.  It was a honest mistake though.  My math somewhere was obviously wrong.  So now he is pissed at me and not talking to me.  He left without even saying goodbye, not a hug or a kiss.  He never leaves without kissing me.  I am in pieces over here. 


*Just so I don't have to keep saying this.  We had the money just in another account.  I don't link my savings to my online banking because I am afraid to have it hacked again. So I couldn't transfer before the bank opened today. My math was off when I was calculating the bill about $70 dollars.  I must have mistyped something.  I am far from needing more money.  I own my business and DH has a good job.  Which is why him being mad over $30 troubles me.  

Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 30, 2013 at 6:52 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jan. 30, 2013 at 9:04 AM
What bank?
notjstasocermom
by Emerald Member on Jan. 30, 2013 at 9:05 AM

ehh He'll get over it. next time just be more careful.

blessed107
by Ruby Member on Jan. 30, 2013 at 9:05 AM

Tell him you're only human, damn. Has he never made a mistake before?

ecerka
by Platinum Member on Jan. 30, 2013 at 9:06 AM
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He is ridiculous. At least it was to pay a bill and not something stupid.
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auntietotty
by Ruby Member on Jan. 30, 2013 at 9:07 AM

Getting snubbed and the silent treatment over THAT???? He  needs to grow up.

ms-superwoman
by on Jan. 30, 2013 at 9:08 AM
Nunyabusiness
by on Jan. 30, 2013 at 9:10 AM

 How stupid can you be???? GAH!!!!

j/k ;) Let him cool off and be his pissy little self away from the house. I think you did the right thing if he's goign to get that bent out of shape about it he can do the bills.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Jan. 30, 2013 at 9:12 AM
I'd be pissed at you too. I would never have $70 putting me in such a bind either.
quickbooksworm
by Ruby Member on Jan. 30, 2013 at 9:15 AM
1) he's being an ass.
2) find a bank that won't overdraft you the minute the charge appears. Mine gives me until midnight and clears deposits before debits.
3) get rid of overdraft altogether.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Jan. 30, 2013 at 9:16 AM
Well he needs to grow up.
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