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My boyfriend is in jail :(

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post
And I'm trying to get him out. His bond is $200 and I only $85 of it. He went to jail defending me so I feel totally responsible. I just needed someone to share this with I'm super depressed right now.
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 30, 2013 at 4:48 PM
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jbirdsladie27
by on Jan. 30, 2013 at 4:53 PM
Pawn your stuff
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 30, 2013 at 4:54 PM
Oh no that's all I'm willing to give I ain't afford to get him out by myself he has to ask his family for help


Quoting Anonymous:

Since you are on cafemom, I am assuming you are a mom. If you only have $85 to your name, you need to save that for your kids, not bail your boyfriend out of jail.


Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Jan. 30, 2013 at 4:54 PM
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 How did he defend you? Why did you need defending in the first place? IMO sounds like your BF is a Loser, and your not much better, using your money to bail a guy out of jail instead of using it for your kids..

viv212
by Gold Member on Jan. 30, 2013 at 4:54 PM
It's not your fault he's in jail. If his bond is so low, don't worry about it. Hell be out soon. Why pay for bond when he might end up just going back in?
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jan. 30, 2013 at 4:55 PM
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That's not defending you. Defending you would be if someone was about to physically harm you and he stepped in.


Quoting Anonymous:

A guy thought he could talk to me any kinda way and get away with it


Quoting stickyfingers:

im sorry! that sucks! jail is horrible! go pawn something...what happened?



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by Platinum Member on Jan. 30, 2013 at 4:55 PM
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Quoting Anonymous:

A guy thought he could talk to me any kinda way and get away with it


Quoting stickyfingers:

im sorry! that sucks! jail is horrible! go pawn something...what happened?


Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jan. 30, 2013 at 4:56 PM
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No, they do if the person being hulled off assaulted someone when the victim didn't physically harm anyone else first.

Quoting Anonymous:

They do if that person decides to press charges.


Quoting Anonymous:

Has to be more to the story they just don't haul some one to jail over defending a person.




Logan_Bellasmom
by Ruby Member on Jan. 30, 2013 at 4:56 PM
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and yet your boyfriend is in jail and your begging for money....yea sounds like you got him good...morons!

Quoting Anonymous:

A guy thought he could talk to me any kinda way and get away with it


Quoting stickyfingers:

im sorry! that sucks! jail is horrible! go pawn something...what happened?


Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Jan. 30, 2013 at 4:57 PM
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So your BF did something illegal to a guy who was talking disrespectfully to you? Sounds like he is right where he SHOULD be, in jail.

Let him sit and hopefully he learns his lesson!


Quoting Anonymous:

A guy thought he could talk to me any kinda way and get away with it




Quoting stickyfingers:

im sorry! that sucks! jail is horrible! go pawn something...what happened?


Anonymous
by Anonymous 7 on Jan. 30, 2013 at 4:57 PM
I used to have one of those loser boyfriends, then I grew up! Hopefully you will too!
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