Which one ?
Depends on what is going on.
Quoting Mamabear010:Who ever has the greater need.
If you're talking about on an everyday basis then like lizzyluvsmoe said :if the spouses/caregivers are happy, then everyone is happy.
If you are talking about in an emergency life or death situation: child first because they are the ones who would need more help in that scenario. An adult is more likely able to take care of themsevles and withstand any trauma better than a child.
Quoting lizzyluvsmoe:Spouse. If you make him your priority, he makes his family his priority. Everyone is happy.
Spouse. If you make him your priority, he makes his family his priority. Everyone is happy.
My husband comes first, children second. Doesn't mean that they don't get what they need and deserve. I just plan on having a marriage still when they are out of the house.Emergency situations, the kids.
Heather- Air Force Wife, Mom of two, WAHM with It Works! Global~ The Body wrap companyThere are people that will tell you that you can't do it. They will even try to hold you back. However, it only means THEY can't do it. You can do anything you set your mind to and are willing to work hard to get.
I do not have a spouse but if I did the answer would be child
Quoting mary841108: depends on the situation. if a kid wants a cookie and my husband is bleeding to death he obviously takes priority.
depends on the situation. if a kid wants a cookie and my husband is bleeding to death he obviously takes priority.
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