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Day 19....:-(

Anonymous
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Since my husband left me. I was strong, but have been very weak lately. Hurting me was one thing...but seeing the devastation in my children is unbearable. This is going to be a LONG and painful road.

He's living the good life now....moved in with his parents (at age 34), has a built-in babysitter there for when he has our kids, doesn't have to cook, do laundry, etc. Well, no thanks! I actually loved being a wife and love being a mom...I will never compromise who I am. But it is very lonely and sad.

Ugh...
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 30, 2013 at 9:20 PM
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mommaboudreaux
by Bronze Member on Jan. 30, 2013 at 9:25 PM

I missed something.  What happened?  Why did he leave you?

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 30, 2013 at 9:26 PM
Quoting mommaboudreaux:

I missed something.  What happened?  Why did he leave you?




After 16 years together, he decided he doesn't love me anymore.
firespurity
by Ruby Member on Jan. 30, 2013 at 9:29 PM

I'm sorry, my husband left in October

TiffanyRose06
by Queso<3 on Jan. 30, 2013 at 9:30 PM
I'm sorry ((hugs))

It will get easier as time goes on, trust me
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BEXi
by BEXi on Jan. 30, 2013 at 9:31 PM

16 years?! I am so sorry ♥

                                                         
                                          
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 30, 2013 at 9:31 PM

Big hugs...sorry!




chalisa0
by Ruby Member on Jan. 30, 2013 at 9:35 PM

He's not living the good life.  He's just a huge loser.  I would rather live alone on welfare than live with my parents.  I'm sorry he hurt you, and that you're lonely and sad.  But, one day things will get better.  There's a man out there who will fully and truly love you.  Just hold on to your integrity and it will be better.  (Don't forget to file for child support-and get some alimony too!)

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 30, 2013 at 9:36 PM
It will get better in time
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 30, 2013 at 9:37 PM

Stay strong. I know its hard but you deserve better. I don't know what happend & its doesn't really matter. What matters if you deserve to be happy.

Grumpylilpixy
by on Jan. 30, 2013 at 9:43 PM

 Sorry mama. But you have to get ahold of yourself and understand he isn't the man you need in your life and you can do better.

I have been in your situation and if you keep it light and happy with your children and doing things together then you will see that they too will be happy.

I know it is hard to be happy but you can do it. And you need to do it. You have kiddo's looking up to you.

I do recommend getting some counseling. This sorta emotional stress can change how you view men and long term relationships. ((((((((hugs)))))

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