Day 19....:-(
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He's living the good life now....moved in with his parents (at age 34), has a built-in babysitter there for when he has our kids, doesn't have to cook, do laundry, etc. Well, no thanks! I actually loved being a wife and love being a mom...I will never compromise who I am. But it is very lonely and sad.
Ugh...
I missed something. What happened? Why did he leave you?
It will get easier as time goes on, trust me
He's not living the good life. He's just a huge loser. I would rather live alone on welfare than live with my parents. I'm sorry he hurt you, and that you're lonely and sad. But, one day things will get better. There's a man out there who will fully and truly love you. Just hold on to your integrity and it will be better. (Don't forget to file for child support-and get some alimony too!)
Sorry mama. But you have to get ahold of yourself and understand he isn't the man you need in your life and you can do better.
I have been in your situation and if you keep it light and happy with your children and doing things together then you will see that they too will be happy.
I know it is hard to be happy but you can do it. And you need to do it. You have kiddo's looking up to you.
I do recommend getting some counseling. This sorta emotional stress can change how you view men and long term relationships. ((((((((hugs)))))
S/o What would you do if you found out your 17yo had sex?