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Husband: do u want a 3br apt or not?
Me: thats fine atleast sd will have her own room and not sleepwith us in our bed
H: sd is sd. Thats her nature, she will always do it.
Me: well i dont want to sleep with a teen ager.shes 13 for god sake. Dd and ds doesnt even sleep with us and theyre toddlers.
H: what..so u agree with my ex that she shouldnt sleep with us in our bed.like were molesting her?
Me: yes i agree with ur ex, and no im not molesting ur daugjter but shes in the age where she needs to be in her own bed.its called appropriateness.
H: dont worry dd will be the sameas sd.
Me: hell no! If u want to continue sleeping with sd do it in her room but i wont share my matrimonial bed with ur daughter.and no,my daughter wont cosleep wuth us til shes 18!
H: im just enjoying it i know it wont last.
Me: enjoy it at the comfort of her bed.i refused to be part of it.
Btw.. Did you sleep in the same bed as ur mom til ur 18?
H: no..
Me: why not?if u think sleeping in the same bed as ur daughter is normal and appropriate, why didnt u do it with ur mom?
H: speechless
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 31, 2013 at 12:05 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 31, 2013 at 12:30 AM
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Your husband sounds like a creep.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 31, 2013 at 12:31 AM
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This is NOT NORMAL. And his preconceived notions about your daughter being the same? Oh hell no!

Quoting Anonymous:

Sd is his mini wife.. He confides to her, treat her like an adult, and she emotionally nourish him.
babyboy117
by on Jan. 31, 2013 at 12:32 AM
And please don't take this the wrong way..but is there a possibility he molests her or anything??
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mommamaggi
by on Jan. 31, 2013 at 12:32 AM
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Ummmm... just... no. Men do not need to be sleeping in the same bed as their pubescent daughters. Its inappropriate and very suspect and CPS would tend to agree.

MsCherry10
by on Jan. 31, 2013 at 12:33 AM

You told him lol but I bet you would have to tell him a couple of times till it sinks in

Mommy980106
by on Jan. 31, 2013 at 12:33 AM
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No, no, no, no. This is wrong on so many levels.


Quoting Anonymous:

Sd is his mini wife.. He confides to her, treat her like an adult, and she emotionally nourish him.

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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 31, 2013 at 12:34 AM
I told him several times i dont want to bedshare with sd, but he would save a space for her.i go to my babies room and sleep there instead.i dont like it but right now i feel he wont bedshare with her on her bed but in our as i am there, he can use me as alibi if cps checks on him


Quoting Ms.Pink.:

Yeah, being adamant about sleeping in the same bed as his 13 yr old DD is not normal. And he's being accused of molesting her on top?

mrsrodgers0703
by Ruby Member on Jan. 31, 2013 at 12:34 AM
And you're married to this man?..


Quoting Anonymous:

Sd is his mini wife.. He confides to her, treat her like an adult, and she emotionally nourish him.

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mrsbrand
by Platinum Member on Jan. 31, 2013 at 12:35 AM

That's not stupid, that's passed into creepy. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 31, 2013 at 12:35 AM
Please don't be naive. I mean you sit down and have some deep thoughts about this. I mean.. Come on now.
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