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Husband: do u want a 3br apt or not?
Me: thats fine atleast sd will have her own room and not sleepwith us in our bed
H: sd is sd. Thats her nature, she will always do it.
Me: well i dont want to sleep with a teen ager.shes 13 for god sake. Dd and ds doesnt even sleep with us and theyre toddlers.
H: what..so u agree with my ex that she shouldnt sleep with us in our bed.like were molesting her?
Me: yes i agree with ur ex, and no im not molesting ur daugjter but shes in the age where she needs to be in her own bed.its called appropriateness.
H: dont worry dd will be the sameas sd.
Me: hell no! If u want to continue sleeping with sd do it in her room but i wont share my matrimonial bed with ur daughter.and no,my daughter wont cosleep wuth us til shes 18!
H: im just enjoying it i know it wont last.
Me: enjoy it at the comfort of her bed.i refused to be part of it.
Btw.. Did you sleep in the same bed as ur mom til ur 18?
H: no..
Me: why not?if u think sleeping in the same bed as ur daughter is normal and appropriate, why didnt u do it with ur mom?
H: speechless
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 31, 2013 at 12:05 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 8 on Jan. 31, 2013 at 12:48 AM
yea that is weird.I would start asking questions about that
Ms.Pink.
by on Jan. 31, 2013 at 12:48 AM
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You're not there, you can't say. He spoons her, cuddles and kisses her on the mouth. You refer to her as his mini wife and compare her to a mistress. He is a child molester! Wake the fuck up idiot, in all honesty if you stay with him you deserve CPS to remove your daughter from you.
Quoting Anonymous:

Hes not molesting her..i think.. But hes emotionally needy and shes clingy as well.



Quoting Ms.Pink.:

Are you serious? You'd cover for him? You're enabling a perv.



Quoting Anonymous:

I told him several times i dont want to bedshare with sd, but he would save a space for her.i go to my babies room and sleep there instead.i dont like it but right now i feel he wont bedshare with her on her bed but in our as i am there, he can use me as alibi if cps checks on him









Quoting Ms.Pink.:

Yeah, being adamant about sleeping in the same bed as his 13 yr old DD is not normal. And he's being accused of molesting her on top?


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MsCherry10
by on Jan. 31, 2013 at 12:49 AM
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Nanny cam this situation. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 31, 2013 at 12:50 AM
Call me a heartless bitch..but at this point i dont give a damn as long as i have my bed my privacy and my kids dont get affected


Quoting opal10161973:

IDK what's worse...them for doing it or you for allowing it.  I would have insisted on therapy a LONG time ago.

Quoting Anonymous:

I know ... Gross.. U should see she would lay with daddy spoon style.. Put her arms around daddys shoulders facing him and giving kissed on the lips.. and husband would confide to her before me..no wonder she thinks and acts like shes the wife and the mistress of the house





Quoting Leobaby2007:


Quoting Val99:

Your husband wants you to share your bed with a 13 year old?  That is quite odd...


^^^ You can say that again! Yikes!





zoo003
by Gold Member on Jan. 31, 2013 at 12:51 AM
No, that is not healthy for either one if them.
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wissotamum
by Silver Member on Jan. 31, 2013 at 12:51 AM
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Ummmm, time to get her to a safe place (maybe with her mother) and get everyone a little counseling. Don't be that douchebag adult who looks the other way. Those people get put in a special level of hell someday.

Quoting Anonymous:

She gives him the lovin attention the admiration the confidence and meets his emotional needs.. I wont.hes an ass.an alcoholic.. Controlling and verbally demeaning to me.




Quoting wissotamum:

She emotionally nourishes him?! Can you explain what that means in this context?





Quoting Anonymous:

Sd is his mini wife.. He confides to her, treat her like an adult, and she emotionally nourish him.

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RLT2
by on Jan. 31, 2013 at 12:51 AM
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Wrong  Creepy   Inappropriate..........Creepy again

Edit: Okay, I just read through the replies. What in the fucking hell is the matter with you. Do you have to see actual sex going on before you admit to the reality of the situation? How "exactly" do you plan on not having your kids affected, when seemingly, their father (that lives in the same home as them) is an alcoholic and child molester? Did he not already state that YOUR Dd will do it(sleep in bed with him)to? And how can you say don't care what they do? She's a 13yr old kid for chrissakes!!!!!

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 31, 2013 at 12:52 AM
Ill see if i can get a spycam or use my fon


Quoting MsCherry10:

Nanny cam this situation. 


Ms.Pink.
by on Jan. 31, 2013 at 12:52 AM
Any man that seeks that out from his own teenage daughter is a perverted sicko. And any mother that watches it happen, raises another daughter with him and would cover for him is just as sick and perverted.

Quoting Anonymous:

She gives him the lovin attention the admiration the confidence and meets his emotional needs.. I wont.hes an ass.an alcoholic.. Controlling and verbally demeaning to me.




Quoting wissotamum:

She emotionally nourishes him?! Can you explain what that means in this context?





Quoting Anonymous:

Sd is his mini wife.. He confides to her, treat her like an adult, and she emotionally nourish him.

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justone_jen
by Gold Member on Jan. 31, 2013 at 12:53 AM
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Wait, so you'd be totally cool with him molesting her, so long as you have privacy?

You are fucked.


Quoting Anonymous:

Call me a heartless bitch..but at this point i dont give a damn as long as i have my bed my privacy and my kids dont get affected




Quoting opal10161973:

IDK what's worse...them for doing it or you for allowing it.  I would have insisted on therapy a LONG time ago.

Quoting Anonymous:

I know ... Gross.. U should see she would lay with daddy spoon style.. Put her arms around daddys shoulders facing him and giving kissed on the lips.. and husband would confide to her before me..no wonder she thinks and acts like shes the wife and the mistress of the house








Quoting Leobaby2007:


Quoting Val99:

Your husband wants you to share your bed with a 13 year old?  That is quite odd...


^^^ You can say that again! Yikes!






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