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If a woman left and asked for a divorce from her husband..

Anonymous
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is it wrong to date him before the divorce is final?

 

Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 31, 2013 at 1:15 AM
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BelleVernonGirl
by Gold Member on Jan. 31, 2013 at 1:16 AM

Na...she didn't want him anymore...he's fair game

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jan. 31, 2013 at 1:16 AM

No. I started dating my now DH within the first two months of his divorce proceedings.

QueenBof6
by Ruby Member on Jan. 31, 2013 at 1:17 AM
No
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Sassy762
by CAFE SASSY HBIC on Jan. 31, 2013 at 1:18 AM

IS this a trick question???LOL

For me it is wrong, I will never date a man that is separated and I will insist on seeing the Final Decree first...especially after hearing the horror stories on here, lol

boshs1andonly
by on Jan. 31, 2013 at 1:18 AM
Whether it's wrong is subjective. Personally I wouldn't date someone who hasn't finalized their divorce, it could get messy.
spicy_n_sweet
by on Jan. 31, 2013 at 1:18 AM

I don't view it as right or wrong.

 I would not do it, the reasons though are more about how nasty divorces can be, how often people change their mind and decide to get back together, the emotional stress and drama that goes along with a situation like this. These are reasons I would not date a man in this situation, not because I think it's "wrong".

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jan. 31, 2013 at 1:19 AM
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Yes....because SHE asked for the divorce, that means that HE was still interested in the marraige, and that it will be dramatic to say the least...Let him find himself, and a life without his wife...before he jumps into another relationship!

Fields456
by Ruby Member on Jan. 31, 2013 at 1:19 AM
I think as long as divorce papers have been filed its all good
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jan. 31, 2013 at 1:20 AM
Probably. Because he is either lying. Or he isn't ready to date. Considering his wife left him.
Cmyfantasyworld
by Silver Member on Jan. 31, 2013 at 1:21 AM

to each their own..

but i cant talk I am dating before I am legally divorced. 

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