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After sex do you...**more options added

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I have a need after sex to "clean up". Even to the point of giving my hands a really good soapy wash- my logic: I don't want to wake in the middle of be night and tend to my kids with sex hands!

My hubby just stays in bed.

Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 31, 2013 at 9:43 AM

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by Anonymous on Jan. 31, 2013 at 9:44 AM

We both wash up.

by Anonymous on Jan. 31, 2013 at 9:45 AM

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I wash up. He stays in bed. I have to get up with the baby at least once a night and I don't want to stand up and have "man juice" running down my leg or my hands to be smelling like him.

almondpigeon

Platinum Member on Jan. 31, 2013 at 9:46 AM

usually i just wash up "down there". but, now i have a nursing baby so i usually jump in the shower real quick afterwards. i don't want my little pookie cuddling up to me if i know i might have sex residue all over me.

lovnmy3boys

Paula on Jan. 31, 2013 at 9:46 AM

We both have to clean up, thank goodness lol!

AleaKat

Platinum Member on Jan. 31, 2013 at 9:46 AM

Roll over and go to sleep. Doesn't bother me.

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by Anonymous on Jan. 31, 2013 at 9:46 AM

I have to take a shower. The act of sex is nasty to me. I feel gross. I know very sad. Everybody feel bad for my husband now. I barely have sex because of this feeling. It's so dirty.

Cheribomb

Gold Member on Jan. 31, 2013 at 9:47 AM

He washes up & I jump in the shower quick. I don't have to tend to kids at night but I get yeasty beastys really easy since I had hysterectomy . He washes up cuz he stays up & is usually working with clay or drawing.

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bonniemommy100

on Jan. 31, 2013 at 9:47 AM

We both take a quick shower after sex.

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lovnmy3boys

Paula on Jan. 31, 2013 at 9:47 AM

Lol. :)

Quoting almondpigeon:

usually i just wash up "down there". but, now i have a nursing baby so i usually jump in the shower real quick afterwards. i don't want my little pookie cuddling up to me if i know i might have sex residue all over me.