So, I'm talking to dh, and he goes, "Blah blah blah..." while making a little talking hand puppet gesture...
Dh is bad about not listening to me. He'll sometimes talk over me, or cut me off, or just act as if he can't even hear me. Or, even if he doesn't do that, later I will mention it again and he's like, "WHAT?! You didn't tell me that?!" Uh, yes I did! If you would just LISTEN you would know that.
Last night I was trying to explain something to him, and he had turned his back and didn't appear to even hear me, so I try explaining it further, hoping it will sink in to his thick skull, then he says, "Blah blah blah... Why do you have to talk so much. Just get to the point!" while making this talking hand puppet gesture to demonstrate my apparently 'annoying' talkativeness.
I said, "You're rude and mean. Is that to the point?" He laughed, not thinking I could ACTUALLY be offended by what he said. Then he came over to the couch and was trying to kiss me and hold hands and be lovey like he didn't just really insult me. The whole night he seemed really confused as to why his comment would offend me and why I was still mad. I explained it, of course, as concisely as I could, but he just doesn't seem to get it, just like he doesn't seem to get 80% of what I say.