i have been with my so for 3 years now. we have 1 baby together. he was married in decmember 2008 and the marriage was annuled may 2008. him and his ex were together almost 4 years before marriage. i have never met her. nor do i want to. shes remarried and lives in a diff state... but everytime i ask my so about her and why the marriage ended, i get no answer. he immedialtely changes the subject. about 2 weeks ago i found his annulment papers.. it basically stated that she promised kids when they got married but then refused to have sex without a condom. he doesnt know i have read them.... but how do i get him to talk to me about it?? any ideas?? thank you ladies!