My cousin always has sh*t on me throughout my life. I would only be good enough when it was convenient for her. We were next door neighbors growing up and she would have birthday parties and not invite me. There are many other stories i could tell of her being downright mean to me. As time has gone on, we have had very little contact. I got married, and invited her, but didn't ask her to be part of the wedding party. Recently, she told me she was pregnant so we have been talking a little more. She sent my best friend an invite to a shower, and not me. She isn't close to my friend, but does things just to try to hurt me. Now my mother is going to host one for her, she just told me last night. Would you go? Would you not? I need to make a mature decision and would appreciate honest feedback.