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Trusting your child with a child molester

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My grandfather molested my mother for many years of her childhood. He went to prison and did his court ordered therapy. The family believes he has changed, My aunts and uncles even let my cousins stay at my grandparents when they were little. And now that I have children of my own I cringe at the thought of him holding them let alone letting my helpless children stay for overnights. Do you believe child molesters can change? Would you ever trust one?

Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 31, 2013 at 8:55 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 31, 2013 at 9:00 PM
Nope! Same thing happened with my mom and her dad and I'd be damned if I'd leave my kids there!! I spent a lot of time at my grandmothers growing up but once grandpa was there, we stopped staying there
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 31, 2013 at 9:00 PM
Say what? Hell no. Healed or not why the hell would anyone risk it?
banana-bear
by on Jan. 31, 2013 at 9:00 PM
I would not allow my children within 100ft. of a known child molester. They never change.
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Always1222
by on Jan. 31, 2013 at 9:00 PM

No....I think that is one of the things that makes you untrustable. 

Jcothrine
by on Jan. 31, 2013 at 9:00 PM
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no and no.  it has been proven they do not change.  dont put your kids in that situation.  please.


follow your gut instinct.  i wouldnt even have anything to do with him.

emilysmom8
by Platinum Member on Jan. 31, 2013 at 9:01 PM

 I dont believe they can change, and will NEVER EVER let my child any where near that person (even if it's their own grandparent)

ladysamanda
by on Jan. 31, 2013 at 9:01 PM
Hell no. I dont trust anyone besides my hubby and parents and his teacher. Period.
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Myhumblestart
by on Jan. 31, 2013 at 9:01 PM
Never!Nope!I don't care who it was!I would never trust a predator!
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cece5000
by Bronze Member on Jan. 31, 2013 at 9:02 PM

NO WAy!

kandie63
by Silver Member on Jan. 31, 2013 at 9:02 PM
Not even over my dead body.


Quoting LectioDivina:

Not in a million years


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