Long story short, my mother is an idiot. Had me at 17, married my dad (who isn't much better) at 18 because they had me. Their marriage lasted 11 years, and also produced a son, my awesome brother.
Anyway, they both made a lot of mistakes. Cheating, swinging, drugs (my dad), and general disrespect for each other and my brother. When my folks divorced, she decided it would be a great idea to move 1500 miles away to California with her boyfriend. Just up and left my brother and I. I moved there briefly, hated it, and moved back home and lived with my maternal grandparents until I was 19.
About 6 years ago, she and her husband (she married him, ugh) moved to where I live and built the first the first home they ever owned.
Two years later, he died. She lost her house in a year. She is currently living in my old bedroom at my grandparents house (karma is a huge bitch, I've told her that) and she's miserable.
She began seeing a complete idiot/asshole/cheat/waste of skin guy. She caught him (literally) in bed with another woman, they stayed friends. I hate this guy. Seriously, I'm 35 years old and can see through his bullshit. How can she be 52 and not?!
Believe it or not, that's a short version. She was supposed to be at my house to stay with my girls so I could go to the store this evening. It's now 8:18 and she's still not here. She's at his apartment getting laid. When the hell will I EVER matter to this woman?!
Does anyone else have a horrible influence of a mother like I do?
Sorry I'd there's typos, I'm on my phone and upset.