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Should I say something? RAPE/PORN/UNDERAGE

Anonymous
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If you knew someone that works around children watched rape porn and underage porn would you do something?



I picked up my younger sister from college last weekend and she brought a male with her that lives in the same area and asked me to meet his family with him. Carpool. I agreed to drop him off with his family. We had difficulty reaching his family so we all went back to my house for a while. He was using my sisters laptop for random things for several hours in her room with headphones in. She said he does it a lot.



I later took him home and asked my sister to see her laptop. I checked the history a for the past few hours the history was nothing but google searches for the following subjects: "rape porn", "single young sluts in your area", "old man banging underage girl", "child molesters", "Japanese rape porn", "young child rape porn" and lots more!



I was so shocked and terrified by what I saw I immediately broke into tears. I showed my sister and she didn't seem shocked. That when she said thy had the same classes together because they had the same major and she didn't want things to get weird if she brought t up. My sister is majoring in PRE-K EDUCATION!



Obviously this guy doesn't need to work around children, don't you agree? Should I do or say something? Who should I report this to if so?
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 31, 2013 at 10:08 PM
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silverdawn99
by Ruby Member on Jan. 31, 2013 at 10:10 PM
Just looking those up can get your sister in trouble
Yeah i would say something
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TAG_ur_it
by Platinum Member on Jan. 31, 2013 at 10:10 PM

oh lord.. i'd definitely report it, but i have no idea to who....

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 31, 2013 at 10:12 PM
That's what I tried telling her! That will all trace back to her. I cleared her history for her so there technically isn't any proof of it now but still.


Quoting silverdawn99:

Just looking those up can get your sister in trouble

Yeah i would say something

bowribbonmama
by Ruby Member on Jan. 31, 2013 at 10:12 PM
Rape porn- no
Underage porn- yes
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calvinsmommy18
by Gold Member on Jan. 31, 2013 at 10:12 PM
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 i'd report it, but idk who you would have to report it to....maybe the president of her college?

areyouatroll
by on Jan. 31, 2013 at 10:13 PM
Um Wtf I would definitely run my mouth to the school and the police. Not sure if they can do anything about it but still would.
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shudderette
by Silver Member on Jan. 31, 2013 at 10:13 PM

hmmm that's weird. i'd ask your sister to talk to him about it. Maybe he's writing a paper? Just because he's majoring in education doesn't mean he can't take classes on criminology or psychology or something. 

if you really want to report it maybe talk to the school?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 31, 2013 at 10:13 PM
I definitely want to say something I'm just not sure of how to o about it. I don't want dragged into the middle because I have a family and I don't need to draw attention. I just know that if he was working around my daughter and someone knew what kind of person he is, I would want them to do something.


Quoting TAG_ur_it:

oh lord.. i'd definitely report it, but i have no idea to who....


Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 31, 2013 at 10:15 PM
No classes like that. I already asked her. I thought maybe the same thing at first too. I always try to think of positives first but there just isn't any positives here.


Quoting shudderette:

hmmm that's weird. i'd ask your sister to talk to him about it. Maybe he's writing a paper? Just because he's majoring in education doesn't mean he can't take classes on criminology or psychology or something. 

if you really want to report it maybe talk to the school?


Val99
by Ruby Member on Jan. 31, 2013 at 10:18 PM
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Rape porn is legal and I would not say anything.  Underage porn (real, not CGI) is kiddie porn and a crime.

One problem in some of the porn cases is that many time something that looks like kiddie porn is computer generated or digitally enhanced.  That is not illegal.  As an example, porn sites will "de-age" adult models using the same software that is used to age pictures of missing children.  So they can take an adult porn acctress and make her look 12.  That is not illegal.  They can also generate extremely life-like images (think of the movie "300" where 95 % of the "actors" were computer generated.  That is not illegal.  

I would almost guarantee you that the sites that came up in his search were not underage - just looked underage.  Real kiddie porn is not floating on the web.  It's typically hidden using steganography and would not be available from a google search.

So would you be able to recognize real kiddie porn from generated porn which was ruled legal by the supreme court over a decade ago?

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